Well, I'm a pro masseur, that's what my business is, and so I half agree with the OP, in that, if I'm doing that $hit all day for pay, I'm not really in the mood to do it to some HB at night just for her enjoyment.
HOWEVER, on the other hand, its true that you can make a woman extremely horny just with your hands. So many times I've told a woman I'm a masseur, which she then gets super excited about and pesters me for a massage, during which I've focussed on all her tender points that are known for triggering the release of the hormone oxytocin into her system, which has led directly to sex/c0ck-sucking shortly thereafter.
If you press the right places, in the right way, its a green light for sex, but whether or not you could be bothered is up to you I guess. Sure you can charm her with your humour and personality, but I think its easier and more efficient to kino escalate with massage if you know how.
Points which stimulate the release of oxytocin when massaged are: Base of the skull/occiput, top of the traps (half way between the end of the acromium and the spine), the big muscle on the hand between thumb and fore-finger, the mirror point on the foot between the big toe and second toe, and *especially* the little divot in the tibia about three inches superior to the medial malleolus.
This last one works like magic, pure magic. Also the spot on the ass about two-thirds of the way out laterally from the butt crack to the greater trochanter of the femur. Inner thigh works very well, especially using sweeping motions to stroke down the outer legs, and then stroke up along the inner legs, repeatedly.
Nipple massage will also dump a truck load of oxytocin into her system, you'll see her pupils dilate like saucers if you do that.