DiSt0rTi0n_07
Don Juan
OK, so a while ago I went on a date with a hot girl from college. She speaks english as a second language and her english is not particularily good.
One of the most essential elements in my approach is being C+F. However, this is hard to do when I dont know if she will understand what I say. In the end, I think she saw me as boring due to my lack of C+F and because my vocabulary and selection of conversation topics was restricted to basic english! It actually made me kinda nervous that I couldnt really talk to her, which without doubt did not help. It kinda f***ed up my body language a little.
How would u guys handle the same situation of building rapport and interest?
One of the most essential elements in my approach is being C+F. However, this is hard to do when I dont know if she will understand what I say. In the end, I think she saw me as boring due to my lack of C+F and because my vocabulary and selection of conversation topics was restricted to basic english! It actually made me kinda nervous that I couldnt really talk to her, which without doubt did not help. It kinda f***ed up my body language a little.
How would u guys handle the same situation of building rapport and interest?