I've known this girl for about six months. I have been interested in her for part of that and recently have noticed that she was interested in me. She later told me that she was interested and we have gone out a few times. However, she does not want any sort of commitment or relationship; she has had some recent bad experiences that make her fearful of a commitment of any variety. She genuinely does like me and isn't just friendzoning me, letting me down easy or anything like that. She's damaged. I'm looking for an LTR, she isn't.
The advice you should give me is to forget about her and move on. I am aware of this, I think wasting time waiting is dumb and there is another girl I'm starting to see.
Something that doesn't come up so often around here and got me curious is how I could be able to keep her interest level high so that if/when she is ready for commitment she is still interested. What tips do you have, if any, for maintaining a girl's high IL once you've already gotten it and without being in a relationship with her?
The advice you should give me is to forget about her and move on. I am aware of this, I think wasting time waiting is dumb and there is another girl I'm starting to see.
Something that doesn't come up so often around here and got me curious is how I could be able to keep her interest level high so that if/when she is ready for commitment she is still interested. What tips do you have, if any, for maintaining a girl's high IL once you've already gotten it and without being in a relationship with her?