UPDATE: Okay so I took your guys advice and broke off a deep two year relationship with a girl I was truly in love with. It's very hard... but I know i'm right in this situation... she keeps calling me and when I pick up... she tries to act like everything is okay and nothing is wrong... then she cries, begs for forgiveness and tells me how much she needs me. This is hard... i told her it's over... and she is not accepting it really... she's going to continue to call me and try to get back with me. but i will ignore her the best i can. I think i have found my balls. Thanks for all teh advice guys... keep them coming because it aint over yet!