WhitePimp
Master Don Juan
Alright, long story short:
Me and this chick (I'll call her A) started talking last May and wound up becoming friends because I was going out with her friend and she was also in an LTR. Basically it was mutual friendzone even though I do believe we both had things for each other.
Fast forward to today. A's friend moved to Buffalo with some dude (I havent dated her since summer of last year) and her LTR's been done for a few months. We hooked up for the first time last Friday at a bar (we both had some drinks but I believe she invited me out so we would finally get to hook up). This had been preceded by intense IOI's from her since she'd seen me going out with another chick (who I'll call B) - SEE THIS THREAD (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=157329)
B I got rid of on V-Day and now I've gone out to lunch twice with A since Friday (we work together so lunch is convenient). She seems very into me but is hesitant to accept any more of my moves. By seems into me, I mean that she texts me constantly, looks forward to seeing me, and doesn't seem to regret hooking up with me. In the past she has gone hot and cold on me, but I always manage to get her hot again
I've been stressing about A for months now, basically turning into one-itis (although I haven't let it really affect me badly, I still dated a bunch of other girls and didn't treat her like a goddess - I guess it's less one-itis, more just a girl I really like a lot and don't want to lose)
I can't accept going back to just friends anymore and I think I basically need to ask her to PICK A SIDE so to speak. She either wants me or doesn't. What's the best way to put this to her? I basically want her for an LTR but don't think it's wise to say I want an LTR with her, it should unfold naturally into an LTR methinks.
I realize I could lose a potentially awesome girl, but I'm sick of waiting around for her to figure out what the hell she wants. If she wants me, that's great...what's my next step? If she doesn't or I get LJBF'd, I really have to just cut her out of me life.
ADVICE PLEASE! What should I do?
Me and this chick (I'll call her A) started talking last May and wound up becoming friends because I was going out with her friend and she was also in an LTR. Basically it was mutual friendzone even though I do believe we both had things for each other.
Fast forward to today. A's friend moved to Buffalo with some dude (I havent dated her since summer of last year) and her LTR's been done for a few months. We hooked up for the first time last Friday at a bar (we both had some drinks but I believe she invited me out so we would finally get to hook up). This had been preceded by intense IOI's from her since she'd seen me going out with another chick (who I'll call B) - SEE THIS THREAD (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=157329)
B I got rid of on V-Day and now I've gone out to lunch twice with A since Friday (we work together so lunch is convenient). She seems very into me but is hesitant to accept any more of my moves. By seems into me, I mean that she texts me constantly, looks forward to seeing me, and doesn't seem to regret hooking up with me. In the past she has gone hot and cold on me, but I always manage to get her hot again
I've been stressing about A for months now, basically turning into one-itis (although I haven't let it really affect me badly, I still dated a bunch of other girls and didn't treat her like a goddess - I guess it's less one-itis, more just a girl I really like a lot and don't want to lose)
I can't accept going back to just friends anymore and I think I basically need to ask her to PICK A SIDE so to speak. She either wants me or doesn't. What's the best way to put this to her? I basically want her for an LTR but don't think it's wise to say I want an LTR with her, it should unfold naturally into an LTR methinks.
I realize I could lose a potentially awesome girl, but I'm sick of waiting around for her to figure out what the hell she wants. If she wants me, that's great...what's my next step? If she doesn't or I get LJBF'd, I really have to just cut her out of me life.
ADVICE PLEASE! What should I do?