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Hey guys,
Welcome back JB, glad you could make it. Thanks for the lowdown on yourself...it will help us all to relate.
Hey Ricky, gives us the quick scoop on yourself so we know what we're working with.
Ricky, I hear you about the 50 hi's. But we really should try to 'stick to it' here if we're going to make it through to week 4. But it's your call, I've gotta do this by the numbers personally. And JB, yeah, we've all got a long way to go here, so youre in good company.
Our goal here is simple: a) to get dates at will b) to meet whichever girl we way to meet at any time and c) to live life completely without regret. That last one's a biggie...the only regret I have is about this stuff...talking to those 100's of honeys over the years whove smiled at me or otherwise said 'come over here you turkey' with their eyes and my AFC ass talked myself out of it. This behavior will terminate by my 34th birthday.
Anyways, my report. I've got 31 to go...I seem to be doing ALL of my hellos on walk-bys. No 'static' hellos so to speak...just standing and turning and saying hi. I need to do that, because that is exactly what I'll be doing in bars, clubs, in line, most places. However, I haven't made much opportunities in that aspect. Friday I went out with a bud to a cool place, and really only had 2 ops, but didn't get them off in time...YOU MUST DEVELOP AN INSTINCT for this stuff. It's crazy how your AFC programming gets in the way every single time. I can see how shortly it will be automatic look, smile, hello. No biggie.
Anyways, got a few off yesterday walking around the city doing a little shopping, and then I had a blind date last night. Yes, yes, AFC I know. it's the second one I've ever had in my life...so it's not a habit. But I knew a little about her and I wasn't disappointed. She was a cutie and in great shape...and this is Sweden, so even the cuties are pretty freakin' hot. Turned out she had a brain and everything...lots of convo, good drinks, made out with her and put her back on the train.
Now, I'll say my game is OK once I meet someone. Kissing, sex, whatever all seems to come whenever I go for it....But I took the chance to practice some of the other
goods I've been reading on this site to boost her IL. So I dropped way more Kino than usual...instead of the usual hand on the back of the arm I went for the thigh...numerous times, nothing but googly eyes. Did the deep stare a bunch, result, staring at my lips...looking around my face. This girl wants to make out. I did the arm-in-arm trick on the way out the bar (not on the way there...too soon for a blind date) she ate it up. We talked so much, we walked in silence about a half of the way there and I could see the smile on her face. Got to the subway, did the kiss test...went in for the slow hug, this girl wouldn't have it. She went right for it...small kiss on the lips...ok...so put my hand lightly behind her neck and let her have it...lite touch, slow...ahh...there's her tounge...and then I did something distinctly DJ...I pulled back...drove her nuts...she was back in...pulled away again...this time she grabbed me...I indulged her a bit...and pushed away. "I really want to see you again." she says. "I'll give you a call" and said good bye. Made a quick exit...no linger, just a turn and confident step away.
Now, this doesn't come off well in the forum. But the power of these techinques truly impressed me. You basically have to be Brad Pitt on his birthday to get the "I really want to see you again" line. I've been with girls who I knew where hot for me and I still had no clue of IL after the date.
If I can only address the meeting issue, and I will, I will be a machine.
Ok, gonna try and knock out a few more hellos today. Going out tonight with a fellow DJ from the list...he's way ahead...may just sit back and observe.
