Advice from the old lady: From a woman's perspective, let me explain what a man who keeps frame looks like.
Why do you keep calling yourself "old?" Alot of top guns in business are older than you and they say they will keep going forever.
He is a man who does as he pleases with whom he pleases. He is less concerned with pleasing a woman and more concerned with pleasing himself and pursuit of his own endeavors and desires. If upon his invitation a woman elects to come into his world, he may welcome her and enjoy her, and he will be considerate of her if he values her entry into his story. But he won't fundamentally change his story or change who he is or cease to serve his own life and interests. And if the woman tries to dictate or modify or control or change his world rather than contribute value to it as it currently exists, then a man with solid frame will dismiss the woman and go on about his business.
Ideally yes. In Real Life, HELL No.
No guy in America, let alone on SS, will "dismiss" any decent looking young girl with little baggage because she tried to dictate or modify his behavior. For Sex with in good looking young girl in 2018? Heck, any guy, would be "what can I do for you to have sex with me?" rather than dismiss her because of some tests.
You have to remember, society doesn't value what goes on BEHIND the scenes. They value what they see in front on them. Good looking girl on your arm Friday night with 60% frame? Or being alone Friday watching tv with 100% frame?
"What happened to that hot new movie actress you amazingly got date with?"
"Nothing. We fooled around a little but she tried to change my frame and I don't accept that."
"So you didn't make another date with her?"
"No bro. I'm alpha and my frame is tight. No good looking famous young actress is going to change my ways."
"Well then what did you do this weekend?"
"Sat at home and watched the game while being 100% alpha and tight frame."
"Sweet bro!"
The sh*t tests guys talk about are really nothing more than a woman finding the boundaries of the man's frame, in other words what a man will and won't tolerate. The stronger your frame is the less you will be subject to sh*t tests because the boundaries and expectations you have will be explicit. Strong frame is consistent, which gives a woman a sense of stability and consistency when dealing with you. By contrast weak or non-existent frame is nebulous, inconsistent and therefore unsettling, which make the woman want to exert more control (to gain greater stability and consistency.)
Better to err to the side of ass hole than to err to the side of p*ssy. But there is much nuance and subtlety in frame control. Full bore ass hole behavior isn't going to get you where you want to go either.
My theory: If you are
ATTRACTED to the girl. Take some hits as long as they are small, but
do not compensate on BIG things. Men in 2018 don't have the luxury to be so strong and consistent and powerful and frame full. Sex is such at a premium if the girl is young + good looking, you got to give in alot of the time.