Read this intraining...
intraining said:
She and him are not together.She broke up with him a few days after going out with me.What am i saying? im being playd and i know it.First good looking girl to ever like me for me and i ruined everything.The first woman to ever care about what was going on with me and i ****ed it up.Twenty two years old and nothing has happened to me and why? because i do not have the experience.Learning experience or not im just going to live my life and hopefully something out of the blue like this happens again cuz i kno i will never be able to approach someone in public.
I cant believe this......i thought it was time for things to turn around but i guess im going to have to wait a few more years or stop trying all together.I wish i went into this with experience cuz then maybe i would be with her.I enjoyed the times i had with her and i had never been so happy.From just a regular joe to being liked by a hb71/2.I just want to go back and start again
GOD, FOR FVCK SAKE shut UP! If you wanna go cry about life go to a female forum where they might care!
Grow some balls, stop whinning about hoping it was time to change, it never will unless YOU FORCE it to (newtons action -> reaction goes for many things in life i guess).
You and you alone can change your life, we can only give advice on how to do so. So this is the first advice: Stop your fvcking whinning about it and make it happen YOURSELF! If you don't want to well then be a sucker for the rest of your life, ask your mommy to read you a bedtimestory. Be just like so many other people that are scared of taking some risks. Think about it, what do you have to lose?!
I've been willing to make a post about it but i'll say it here: Think about all of it, how do we learn? The only way we learn things is through pain and sacrifice, if nobody would've eaten poisonous berries, we wouldn't know they are, if nobody burned himself in fire, we wouldn't know it burns. Without pain and sacrifice, the whole HUMAN race wouldn't excist... Thinking about it, if god wants us to learn through pain, doesn't that say something? He might just not like you, there might even be a posebilety that he HATES you, is this the worst thing to happen? No, you're still alive... Now do you wanna live like a sucker, or are you going to open your eyes and realise this that if you don't TAKE what you want, you'll never have it. You will have to endure pain, and while you endure you'll become stronger! Make that first step and approach people, make baby steps and start with eyecontacting strangers, talk to old people whatever you need as a preparation.
intraining said:
Alright i guess its best that i just forget about it and take it as a loss.I wish i didnt **** up so bad early on.Another one lost due to my inexperience.Was really hoping for her to become a **** buddy
A **** buddy as you call it, is a person who's just a FRIEND that you feel attracted to physicly, but not emotionaly (WHICH you definetly are). If one of the parties is emotionaly attached, this will end up with one person or both people very hurt. If this person is not even your friend (which she isen't), then she is just using you and the posebilety of getting hurt has exponentially increased. Meaning: You do not want a person like this as your **** buddy!
Now further on this girl you dealing with at the moment, considering the fact that she has treated you with no respect, you FORGET about her, don't ever call her again cause she will only use you.
Forget about her birthday, you've got much better things to do, whatever special day comes up for her, you've got better things to do. She has given you pain, you should be pissed at her and not be cheering for her!
This all should be a motivation for you to change (unless you like being treated like sh*t), you'll find enough things in the bible how you can make this happen. My suggestion: get some intresting hobbies(wakeboarding for instance
), talk to people there and become more social. Overcome your fear of approach and of women. If you do, you'll understand one day that it wasn't really all necessary to fear them, they should fear seeing a REAL man like you (fear that they posebly aren't able to get him), cause Real men are unique! And here you have the posebilety to become one...
I don't wish you luck, I wish that you'll be able to do what is necessary instead, then luck will never be needed anyway.