mexican_player2 said:
well one of my biggest problem is that i care a lot about what people thinks, so i dont do what i want because i dont want them to think bad of me
but i want to stop thinking like that but i cant!
any advice??
i really need to change this way of thinking
It seems to me that your putting too much emphasis about what other people think about you and not what YOU think of yourself. Who's oppinion matters most to you?
What have other people done for you? Nothing.
How much success are you going to get from other people? None.
Are other people going to get you to sleep with women? No.
It's not about other fvckin people. The bottom line is, you will have to earn everything you get. Yes, you. It's not other people's life, it's yours. And if they don't like it, then they should get their own fvcking life.
And your going to care about what people think of you? There the one's who need the life if they actually do care.
Here's something you should know about people. Friends will try to hold you down to their level so they won't lose you as a friend. So that you won't make it up there with a better life, a better outlook, and better friends then they are.
People will make fun of you because THEY are insecure about themselves, and when you do something geeky or lame or weak it will remind them of their own weakness and they will attack you for something that they can't face. A secure person won't pass judgement. So therefore you don't need to worry. But the people who do, they are just covering up their own insecurities, therefore these kind of people, you don't even need to worry about what these low lives think.
And other people want somebody to pick on and keep at a low level to make themselves feel better about their own low self esteem.
And if your gonna let an oppinion from an HB get to you, it's going to affect you when 10 more HB's come your way. And that's not a numbers game you want to play.
I hope this one gets to you. Imagine this: You're on your death bed. And you look back at all the risks you never took. About how you cared about what other people thought of you. And then you realize, you never once lived your life at all. You were just living other peoples lives, other peoples expectations, other peoples whims and wishes. You never once lived the life you wanted. So what was the point of living at all? You were just existing. This one oppurtunity of life, and you blew it, bending over backwards to please others. That's not a life, that's a dildo.
And yes, it IS that important. If your not running your life, somebody else it. If your not sleeping with that HB you let go because of fear, somebody else is. People are out their living your dreams because you care that they will bark at you if you try to take what's yours? Be a man. TAKE WHAT'S YOURS.
Sh!t, like peoples oppinions are always right, fvck that. You know what's right for you. Who knows you better?
So, fvck their insecure thouths, and fvck yours too. There shouldn't be anything between you and your life. And anything that stops you from living life is death. Simply put.
