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Help Getting An HB 9.5.....

Slick101

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Iv'e seen this chick HB 9.5, Double D's.... fat ass...slim waist... beautiful Rachel Starr Face (pornstar status) NO JOKE!

She sometimes plays pool in the local "pool hall" with her FAT FRIEND,, Iv'e seen her there maybe 4 times within 6 months.. She never noticed me, I was too far away, and I never approached.

YESTERDAY, Im in the pool hall once again with my friends, after playing for about 30 min, I see her on another table with that same fat friend Just the 2 of them AS ALWAYS!.. My friend supposedly Knew her, so he started to approach, I went with him. He introduced Us, and I completely ignored the fact that she is there and started to talk to the FAT FRIEND... IT WAS HER BDAY!.. I gave her a hug, not knowing her, and did some friendly small talk to befriend her..

My friend however, was trying to get the HB9.5's number as he was suppose to take her out 7 months ago, and he was desperately asking her number once again to make up for when he didnt take her out. He was acting very needy, and she never gave him her number, she kept teasing him, telling him he lost his chance...

Anyways, I am slighly ignoring this chick keeping my cool, befriending the fat chick. Then they bought out a surprise cake for her we all sang Happy Birthday, and then decided to play 2 on 2. My friend and I VS the CHIX...

BTW THE CHIX, ARE VERY GOOD IN POOL, THEY USED TO BE IN A TOURNEMENT..

We loose twice becuz Of my friend, and I play well, so the HB9.5 decides to Play me 1 on 1. My friend buds in and says if I win then he has to take her out, she denies and laughs at him. "I tell him to **** of becuz he is acting like an AFC"..

We play and I am always leading the game with only the black ball left, making every shot in, and everytime I have the black ball left I miss and white goes in!!! AND I LOOSE!! (For those of u that know how to play)

3 times in a row, I was leading the game and at the end I kept loosing, even though it was a technical loss they laughed at how good I am but always at the end I mess up on my own mistakes... Anyways,

We start to leave, and the chick invites me over for her BDAY party Today, in a cafe next to the pool hall...I told her "OF COURSE"!.. lol

I never hit on the HB9.5, barely paid attention to her, I negged her a couple of times,, I never got her phone number, because I know Ill deff see her again there or today at the party... I just need to play the game right!...

How you guys think I should do this?
 

MyTeamSupreme

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So you snubbed a broad without making as much as some small talk and wondering what you're supposed to do now? You did it wrong. You were supposed to keep the fat chicks attention while occasionally talking to the sexy one. For example, talk to the hot chick with your body in the direction of the fat chick. Theres an article about it somewhere but i dont feel like looking
 

Slick101

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MyTeamSupreme said:
So you snubbed a broad without making as much as some small talk and wondering what you're supposed to do now? You did it wrong. You were supposed to keep the fat chicks attention while occasionally talking to the sexy one. For example, talk to the hot chick with your body in the direction of the fat chick. Theres an article about it somewhere but i dont feel like looking
I did that...I spoke to fat chick and occasionally talked to sexy one
 

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YOu are fine and you did fine, don't treat her any special way, she gets that "ohhh you so hot lemme do things for you" from every chump and is tired of it - treat her like a guy friend, make jokes tease her and have a great time laughing. I would even take it easy and if she touches you and stuff play the "oh hey, i know its hard but try to keep your hands off me, I am not that easy, need to be pampered" first - so do the opposite of what every other guy does and play the prize card.

make sure to have a good time with her friends too, dont give her all the attention, but dont make it obvious you are tryign to avoid her -just be normal fun guy

just rmemeber - you always want to go in hoping she is a cool chick that even if it doesnt work out you still want to have her as a friend.. thats what I did with my latest girl and it worked out great, she actually told me she wanted to be friends with me at least because she knew i was fun and we'd have fun.
 

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Sounds like you met a girl, think she's cute, spoke to her a bit, and that was the end of the story.

What's your next move? I don't even think there was a first move. Your next move (the first move) is to speak to her, hold a conversation for 10-15 minutes, and end it by telling her that she should accompany you somewhere and getting her number.

Sorry, bro. But that long story was totally unnecessary. Summary: "I met a girl and I talked to her!!! What do I do now?!?"
 

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Is your friend invited too? If so I'll do this -
1) Tell your friend to meet you there at x time
2) Turn up an hour or two late (without telling your friend, yes he'll hate you for it but hey) she will be wondering where you are, and your friend would be there to remind her of the fact you are not there - yet!
3) Turn up and work the room (if it's not a good friend, tease him about being needy and early too!)
4) Leave early! Tell her some ridiculous excuse like you have to go fishing early the next morning or something
5) If she laughs, ask her to come with you. If she says she doesn't do fishing (or whatever ridiculous activity you mentioned) then say no I'm asking you to come with me now, not fishing. If she says yes, then bingo. If she agrees to fishing, you have your date.
6) Even if it's a no, she will admire you for trying. Number close and save it for a later day.
 

Dante420

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Similar situation.

Except I got her

Made out with her on the beach and before she left.....what now? The 420 caused some glitches in the game my Mac was running but everything was successful making out/420ing her on the beach (this is not a California, sex-friendly beach....yet). I said dumb things but I felt no resistance. At one point we saw a shooting star and I said the mothership of dumbest things, but got no resistance. She continued my back massage. Then she eagerly kissed me in her car before I said bye

What does a normal person (remember I'm completely socially inept like an alien from a different galaxy) so what does a normal person do after making out on the beach....when and how do you initiate contact (9.5-10) and what do you say after a sexless night of kissing on the beach?

I received multiple yet subtle sh!t tests (1st, asking me about her boobs (which are amazing)

Then she said "You may be a tool but your the cutest tool in the shed" to which I responded "I'm a Mac Power Tool"....I shoulda added "Your a gardening tool." with a smile.



In reality I shouldn't be reflecting upon these things, that is what I'm working on.
 

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Slick101 said:
I never hit on the HB9.5, barely paid attention to her, I negged her a couple of times,, I never got her phone number, because I know Ill deff see her again there or today at the party... I just need to play the game right!...

This is a common mistake I see over and over on these boards and I can't really blame any of you for it, because its implied in lots of the articles, but I think most of you guys take it too far!

Its always good to not show interest if there is an obvious hottie in a group of girls, since most likely she's use to the attention and AFC's slobbering all of her.

However you still have to establish attraction, flirt a bit and then withdraw the attention.

Secondly you could have EASILY got her number since she invited you to her party. I've noticed girls are really good at this; super casual ways of getting your info, flirting or inviting you out. Also you got to understand there will be tons of other people there (girls and guys) fighting for her attention at her party. So you need to be aggressive and go get what you want if this is going to go anywhere.

She's interested, but you got to capitalize before the flame burns out.


PS: Most guys make things harder by acting too aloof or taking forever to call; many girls interpret this as you not being interested and they will move on quicker than you can say "hi." Your success will sky-rocket when you can get to a level of confidence that is not ashamed of your intentions and you can be direct with women.






PIMP
 

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^PIMP hit the nail on the head
 
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