TheMachoMan
Don Juan
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- Jan 24, 2003
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It's over a year ago that I saw this girl for the first time. I was an AFC and I didn't know about this place (it was because of her that I found this great forum). It was at the local club and one friday or saturday I decided that I'll have to give it a try... so
I went up to her and asked her if she wanted to dance. She said "not right now". I said ok and left her. When I was going to get my jacket she was in front of me in the line. She turned to me and smiled and I could tell that she wanted to talk to me. Being AFC and also a little angry because of the rejection earlier, I just looked away and didn't say anything.
That's the background story really. A few weeks later I found this site and then I decided to try to forget about her and move on.
Now I've decided that I have to talk to her. I've learnt a lot of things on this site, but I'm still an AFC! So...
how do I strike up a good conversation with her? I know her name because of some of my friends friends know her, but she hasn't told me herself. It feels like I have to touch the subject with us seeing eachother and my previous "pick-up attempt", and that feels so wrong.
I completely agree that you have to act immediately when you see a girl looking at you and this is completely the opposite but I want to make an exception.
I just have to finish my business with her, one way or another. I need to get it all out of my brain.
I went up to her and asked her if she wanted to dance. She said "not right now". I said ok and left her. When I was going to get my jacket she was in front of me in the line. She turned to me and smiled and I could tell that she wanted to talk to me. Being AFC and also a little angry because of the rejection earlier, I just looked away and didn't say anything.
That's the background story really. A few weeks later I found this site and then I decided to try to forget about her and move on.
Now I've decided that I have to talk to her. I've learnt a lot of things on this site, but I'm still an AFC! So...
how do I strike up a good conversation with her? I know her name because of some of my friends friends know her, but she hasn't told me herself. It feels like I have to touch the subject with us seeing eachother and my previous "pick-up attempt", and that feels so wrong.
I completely agree that you have to act immediately when you see a girl looking at you and this is completely the opposite but I want to make an exception.
I just have to finish my business with her, one way or another. I need to get it all out of my brain.