Johnny Alias
Senior Don Juan
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So... I've finally noticed some of the people I hang out with getting... well... kind of old. I'm not a spring chicken at 38 but some of the folks I know are in their mid-40s and still going to bars etc.
I've begun to realize that this is not to my benefit. They're fine people... but women in these circles tend to get passed around from guy to guy. Before you know it you're eskimo brothers with like three other dudes. They're also not LTR material because they move from guy to guy. There's something wrong with many of them and though it may take a while each guy realizes it and gets out or she leaves preemptively. This is not to say the dudes I know are perfect either.
This is the old party crowd that never grew up and still thinks they'll meet someone and have a kid...
I started hanging out with them long ago because they were cool, had hot chicks in the circle (now old) and had status... doctors, lawyers, good for networking, parties and so forth...
I'm younger than they are and the difference is really noticeable... My ex gf of 4 years is 43 and LOOKS OLDER than that. They all do really. This is just that inevitable spiral into middle age and beyond...
I need to expand my social set... hang out with the 30-35 year olds... especially for the sake of meeting a woman for a kid at some point... just trying to figure out the best way to go about it...
God... a lot of these chicks are gonna turn into the drunken wrinkly wh0res we pity in bars that no one wants to talk to... yuck.
Thanks for the vent...
I've begun to realize that this is not to my benefit. They're fine people... but women in these circles tend to get passed around from guy to guy. Before you know it you're eskimo brothers with like three other dudes. They're also not LTR material because they move from guy to guy. There's something wrong with many of them and though it may take a while each guy realizes it and gets out or she leaves preemptively. This is not to say the dudes I know are perfect either.
This is the old party crowd that never grew up and still thinks they'll meet someone and have a kid...
I started hanging out with them long ago because they were cool, had hot chicks in the circle (now old) and had status... doctors, lawyers, good for networking, parties and so forth...
I'm younger than they are and the difference is really noticeable... My ex gf of 4 years is 43 and LOOKS OLDER than that. They all do really. This is just that inevitable spiral into middle age and beyond...
I need to expand my social set... hang out with the 30-35 year olds... especially for the sake of meeting a woman for a kid at some point... just trying to figure out the best way to go about it...
God... a lot of these chicks are gonna turn into the drunken wrinkly wh0res we pity in bars that no one wants to talk to... yuck.
Thanks for the vent...