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Handling LJBF from girl you have been going out and kissing

Trance

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how would you guys handle this from a woman you ve Been going out and kissing?
Not contact anymore?
Say ok lets stay friends cause i need more from a woman?
Other?

"i really like being with you, you're a great company, but i dont like you in that way, that's why i dont give you everything i am.. :(
But i dont want us to be apart.. But i respect your opinion.."
 

Scion

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"sorry, but I have enough friends already. Take care."
 

Lexington

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Yup, eff that. Why would you want to hang around her if you're not getting anything out of it. There's no use in trying to hide your intentions. Just say that you're not interested in being friends. Be frank about it. Then, just forget about her. If she realizes that she wants more, she'll contact you.
 

WesCottII

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Honestly, learn to walk away.

It'll only piss you off being around her and not getting what you want. Be a man about it.
 

starplayer

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Say "yeah sure we can be friends" so you look like you're not bothered by the rejection, but then don't follow through with it.

Don't make a big deal out of it saying how you want more than friends, because she already knows what you want and you're not gonna get it - it will just look needy. Walk away with a smile.

Go no contact and don't hang out with her anymore. Move on.
 

Joe Stud

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i agree star, dont make a sour grapes soapbox out of "not needing any more friends"... just lose interest in her and move on.
 
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