killerdiller
New Member
Guys,
I had a second date with a girl last night and we ended up having sex. I didn't really want to, although I suggested it because the opportunity presented itself, so this f***up is totally on me. The thing is, although this girl is perfectly pleasant and intelligent and okay-looking, I'm not physically attracted to her at ALL. I wasn't able to stay hard during the act, and had to respond to her "are you even attracted to me lines," with reassuring generalities. Anyway, she just contacted me to see if I wanted to come over and have sex again. I do not. I don't even want to see her again. I'm pretty disappointed in myself and am sorry that I inadvertently led her on, but I want to be done with this.
So, am I obligated to do the right thing here by calling her and telling her that I don't feel it/good luck, or can I do the cowardly thing and just beg off seeing her again until she loses interest or gets the point?
For the record, I made clear before the sex that the sex was just sex (sorry, that's a lot of sex's) and not a precursor of anything else. She is definitely way more into me than I am into her.
I had a second date with a girl last night and we ended up having sex. I didn't really want to, although I suggested it because the opportunity presented itself, so this f***up is totally on me. The thing is, although this girl is perfectly pleasant and intelligent and okay-looking, I'm not physically attracted to her at ALL. I wasn't able to stay hard during the act, and had to respond to her "are you even attracted to me lines," with reassuring generalities. Anyway, she just contacted me to see if I wanted to come over and have sex again. I do not. I don't even want to see her again. I'm pretty disappointed in myself and am sorry that I inadvertently led her on, but I want to be done with this.
So, am I obligated to do the right thing here by calling her and telling her that I don't feel it/good luck, or can I do the cowardly thing and just beg off seeing her again until she loses interest or gets the point?
For the record, I made clear before the sex that the sex was just sex (sorry, that's a lot of sex's) and not a precursor of anything else. She is definitely way more into me than I am into her.