can't get into everything but known her for almost 9 years . i myself have strong npd traits from being spoiled my whole life and also being around her for such a long time...im a somatic and she s somatic a solid 9 etx. use to get messed up from her stupid sh1t for years until I researched and finally got everything under control. the blowups were kept to a bare minimum for years maybe one or two here and there but nothing crazy. she knows me I knowetc. basically best friends for years..we did f when we first met but npds diknt like intimacy so we became close...i was introduced to her parents and she would confide in me all the time etc etc. all the guys would try to get get but they can't handle her and get discarded. i stuck it out and have been the nearest and dearest.
sure I've done vengeful things to get her back but it's only fair lol. well about 4 months ago I met this girl (bpd/npd) who knows my NPD chick as aquintaces kind of roll in the same circles. bpd is a legit pornstar with 100k followers on ig and 200k on Twitter so she is known....could somewhat handle her probably better than most dudes thanks to the narcs experiences over the years..well i got fed up with the bpd and said f it. when we broke up one time bpd decides to call npd and ask her about me... never really said anything bad to bpd except that npd had npd...well bpd calls her and says god knows what then i get a text from npd saying shes done with me. i flip out on npd. i imagine bpd said i said she s npd and a few little things I mentioned such as when i was asked if she lived in so and so apartments and i just said yea. but that pretty much was it and and when npd was upset aboit some money situation and I was sitting there listening with 1000's in my pocket and was getting amused because of all the messed up stuff she has done so maybe that was mentioned have no clue but that stuff happened years ago.
so we haven't seen each other in 3 months and she actually lives around the corner from me..she moved to be closer to me actually after her lease was up. ..i texted her may be 3 or 4 times telling npd to get over it I didn't do anything If I did my bad we are suppose to be friends etc etc..well she s not having it and just ends up texting something she wpuild say to some dude trying to date (they emulate people from past encounters and mimic them beciss they don't have empathy so they just act like how they think a person would act in a situation depending on how they percieeve the person at the time) her like u need to accept and move on I'm not the one for you I'm with someone...i replied and said "um ur suppose to be saying that to dudes that r trying to do date u I'm not trying to date u were friends u fn kidding me" then im gonna block u and she does but I would text likke 2 weeks later and she would say the same exact sh1t so I wasn't blocked..yes they just want attention i know...last text was probably last week and last thing I said was get over it then do it if not then don't.
the reason why she isn't having it is because the bpd has more than her and kind of higher up on the food chain and npd feels hurt and inadequate not unique etc because I gsve my attention elsewhere and probably because the bpd is friends with an enemy of t he npd amd I was around her twice with the bpd..well bpd was fkng me and we were sleeping together everynight and she was hot so why wouldn't i..i knew if it got back to npd she would be devastst ed ..well it did...was it worth it..sure why not I guess lol. but bpd and me aren't talking anymore so now I'm like fkkkkk.
well tonight I decide to go to get ice cream i go to this one store I always go to. i leave and say u know what i want a burger and pull into carls jr...i say f it im going to just get a steak and cook it so I drive to this other store on the way home and i think to myself god wouldn't it be crazy if I ran into npd at the store tonight (close to where we live..i rarely go there may be 1 out 30 times i get food)...i get my steak walk to the self check out im first up see a girl in a skirt with nice hair standing 3 feet checking out her groceries... I'm like who tf is this hot b1tch? well she turns towards me and it's the npd low and behold.. there were a few people around so that obviously changed the interaction as opposed to nobody around..but she has npd and there have been times where we would run into each other in public and she would act like she barley knows me and this would be after a day of hanging out lol just weird stuff ..so at the store i said hey idiot kind of low she turned and said stalking me? and I laughed and said um ur stalking me. in my head I was sh1t should I try to hash things out right here right now at the store lol? or should I go outside so we can talk in private..both which aren't my style. so after i laugh and say no ur stalking me i walk over to the next check out lane I glance over to see and she s still scanning...i scan my steak pay and walk right out the door to my car and drive off.
i know she was thinking oh he's gonna wait outside to talk to me well she was wrong and I'm pretty sure she s baffled as to how i didn't...i didn't even text her anything either and not surprisingly she didn't text me..its happened before whe re we wouldn't talk then have an encounter where nothing is really said then end up making up. but this is by far the longest we've gone without seeing each other and talking besides those little exchanges.
never really seen her like this with me before except maybe oncefor 3 weeks because she found out I was hanging with a girl that pushed her in the club lol. we have a deep long past..shes able to act herself around me basically she will never find a replacement be cause I am the nearest and dearest...if u don't have a full understanding of npd then u probably won't get certain things.
the weirdest thing is there have been times where we wouldn't talk for a while then i would have a dream about her...then the next day she would text and that has happened multiple times...and tonight has blown me away..i said befor e to myself the only way would be for us to have a chance encounter in public becais e she isn't having it thru texts...so if we see each other face to face then that might alter things..i never think aboit oh maybe I'll see npd at so and so...just tonight I thought that and I never go to that store well low and behold. all of this is just so epic. just looked on her ig she had some post about being alone so u can grow blah blah blah lol..she acts like I'm her bf or stand in her way...i never stand in her way with any dude...npd are always alone because peoplle can't handle them or they get discarded.
sure I've done vengeful things to get her back but it's only fair lol. well about 4 months ago I met this girl (bpd/npd) who knows my NPD chick as aquintaces kind of roll in the same circles. bpd is a legit pornstar with 100k followers on ig and 200k on Twitter so she is known....could somewhat handle her probably better than most dudes thanks to the narcs experiences over the years..well i got fed up with the bpd and said f it. when we broke up one time bpd decides to call npd and ask her about me... never really said anything bad to bpd except that npd had npd...well bpd calls her and says god knows what then i get a text from npd saying shes done with me. i flip out on npd. i imagine bpd said i said she s npd and a few little things I mentioned such as when i was asked if she lived in so and so apartments and i just said yea. but that pretty much was it and and when npd was upset aboit some money situation and I was sitting there listening with 1000's in my pocket and was getting amused because of all the messed up stuff she has done so maybe that was mentioned have no clue but that stuff happened years ago.
so we haven't seen each other in 3 months and she actually lives around the corner from me..she moved to be closer to me actually after her lease was up. ..i texted her may be 3 or 4 times telling npd to get over it I didn't do anything If I did my bad we are suppose to be friends etc etc..well she s not having it and just ends up texting something she wpuild say to some dude trying to date (they emulate people from past encounters and mimic them beciss they don't have empathy so they just act like how they think a person would act in a situation depending on how they percieeve the person at the time) her like u need to accept and move on I'm not the one for you I'm with someone...i replied and said "um ur suppose to be saying that to dudes that r trying to do date u I'm not trying to date u were friends u fn kidding me" then im gonna block u and she does but I would text likke 2 weeks later and she would say the same exact sh1t so I wasn't blocked..yes they just want attention i know...last text was probably last week and last thing I said was get over it then do it if not then don't.
the reason why she isn't having it is because the bpd has more than her and kind of higher up on the food chain and npd feels hurt and inadequate not unique etc because I gsve my attention elsewhere and probably because the bpd is friends with an enemy of t he npd amd I was around her twice with the bpd..well bpd was fkng me and we were sleeping together everynight and she was hot so why wouldn't i..i knew if it got back to npd she would be devastst ed ..well it did...was it worth it..sure why not I guess lol. but bpd and me aren't talking anymore so now I'm like fkkkkk.
well tonight I decide to go to get ice cream i go to this one store I always go to. i leave and say u know what i want a burger and pull into carls jr...i say f it im going to just get a steak and cook it so I drive to this other store on the way home and i think to myself god wouldn't it be crazy if I ran into npd at the store tonight (close to where we live..i rarely go there may be 1 out 30 times i get food)...i get my steak walk to the self check out im first up see a girl in a skirt with nice hair standing 3 feet checking out her groceries... I'm like who tf is this hot b1tch? well she turns towards me and it's the npd low and behold.. there were a few people around so that obviously changed the interaction as opposed to nobody around..but she has npd and there have been times where we would run into each other in public and she would act like she barley knows me and this would be after a day of hanging out lol just weird stuff ..so at the store i said hey idiot kind of low she turned and said stalking me? and I laughed and said um ur stalking me. in my head I was sh1t should I try to hash things out right here right now at the store lol? or should I go outside so we can talk in private..both which aren't my style. so after i laugh and say no ur stalking me i walk over to the next check out lane I glance over to see and she s still scanning...i scan my steak pay and walk right out the door to my car and drive off.
i know she was thinking oh he's gonna wait outside to talk to me well she was wrong and I'm pretty sure she s baffled as to how i didn't...i didn't even text her anything either and not surprisingly she didn't text me..its happened before whe re we wouldn't talk then have an encounter where nothing is really said then end up making up. but this is by far the longest we've gone without seeing each other and talking besides those little exchanges.
never really seen her like this with me before except maybe oncefor 3 weeks because she found out I was hanging with a girl that pushed her in the club lol. we have a deep long past..shes able to act herself around me basically she will never find a replacement be cause I am the nearest and dearest...if u don't have a full understanding of npd then u probably won't get certain things.
the weirdest thing is there have been times where we wouldn't talk for a while then i would have a dream about her...then the next day she would text and that has happened multiple times...and tonight has blown me away..i said befor e to myself the only way would be for us to have a chance encounter in public becais e she isn't having it thru texts...so if we see each other face to face then that might alter things..i never think aboit oh maybe I'll see npd at so and so...just tonight I thought that and I never go to that store well low and behold. all of this is just so epic. just looked on her ig she had some post about being alone so u can grow blah blah blah lol..she acts like I'm her bf or stand in her way...i never stand in her way with any dude...npd are always alone because peoplle can't handle them or they get discarded.
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