I'm getting quite concerned that I may soon develop a reputation I certainly won't be fond of at my gym. As I have mentioned in my posts, it is one of the few places where I get to interact with women more often on a regular basis. As a result, I have started becoming a lot more aggressive in terms of making a move and talking to women who I find attractive.
The unfortunate thing with the gym environment is that there are many folks there who just don't mind their own business and who gossip a whole lot. So far, I have received four phone numbers from women at my gym. One gave me her office phone number, which I discussed in my other post, the other one simply seemed to give me her number to prevent me from talking to her anymore, since I had been trying to get her number for almost a year and a half. At the moment, I have two prospects and I'm trying to decide which of them to go out with this weekend. I just talked to one of them yesterday and got her number, this lady from the African nation of Zambia. She's tall and skinny but her ass is so RIDICULOSULY BIG and her hips are so full that even when she sits down, you can tell her ass is just way too big for the chair.
I don't want to end up making myself cheap and have some women start labeling me as a desperate guy or some sort of gym slut who just keeps hitting on women left and right all over the place. My greatest fear is that I may find myself someday in a situation where perhaps three or more women I'm talking to might show up at the gym at the same time and I wouldn't know what to do. Nonetheless, I'm having so much fun talking to these women and it's becoming really hard to resist with all of that provocative clothing walking by and all those big asses going back and forth.
But something has definitely changed adn I credit this site for helping out with that aspect. These days, I really could care less, I would tell a woman directly, "I like your big booty," which is one of my favorite lines.
The one thing I don't get are the men in gyms who some would call the haters. A lot of them see these women and make no effort to walk up and talk to them. Once someone else does, they stare at you from a distance frowning, looking at you, looking at the woman you're talking to, checking out her ass, etc.
That's one reason why I probably don't have a very good relationship with a lot of the male personal trainers at my gym. A lot of them feel so comfortable with the belief that their status entitles them to simply take advantage of and get any woman without much of any effort and who under normal circumstances lack the confidence and social skills to get these women's numbers. So for some reason, they seem to feel threatened by men like me, even though all I'm doing is minding my own business. The worst thing you could do is try to talk to any woman they find attractive.
There's one personal trainer in particular who seems to feel very threatened by me when it comes to women for some reason. Each time he sees me talking to a woman, he looks at me from a distance and frowns. Yesterday while I was talking to the most recent woman, he was watching me the whole time frowning to see what would happen.
My question then to those of you who have dated multiple women at your gyms at the same time is, how did you guys do it without losing them all in the process? How did you guys still maintain respectable reputations despite being seen talking to so many women at once?
The unfortunate thing with the gym environment is that there are many folks there who just don't mind their own business and who gossip a whole lot. So far, I have received four phone numbers from women at my gym. One gave me her office phone number, which I discussed in my other post, the other one simply seemed to give me her number to prevent me from talking to her anymore, since I had been trying to get her number for almost a year and a half. At the moment, I have two prospects and I'm trying to decide which of them to go out with this weekend. I just talked to one of them yesterday and got her number, this lady from the African nation of Zambia. She's tall and skinny but her ass is so RIDICULOSULY BIG and her hips are so full that even when she sits down, you can tell her ass is just way too big for the chair.
I don't want to end up making myself cheap and have some women start labeling me as a desperate guy or some sort of gym slut who just keeps hitting on women left and right all over the place. My greatest fear is that I may find myself someday in a situation where perhaps three or more women I'm talking to might show up at the gym at the same time and I wouldn't know what to do. Nonetheless, I'm having so much fun talking to these women and it's becoming really hard to resist with all of that provocative clothing walking by and all those big asses going back and forth.
But something has definitely changed adn I credit this site for helping out with that aspect. These days, I really could care less, I would tell a woman directly, "I like your big booty," which is one of my favorite lines.
The one thing I don't get are the men in gyms who some would call the haters. A lot of them see these women and make no effort to walk up and talk to them. Once someone else does, they stare at you from a distance frowning, looking at you, looking at the woman you're talking to, checking out her ass, etc.
That's one reason why I probably don't have a very good relationship with a lot of the male personal trainers at my gym. A lot of them feel so comfortable with the belief that their status entitles them to simply take advantage of and get any woman without much of any effort and who under normal circumstances lack the confidence and social skills to get these women's numbers. So for some reason, they seem to feel threatened by men like me, even though all I'm doing is minding my own business. The worst thing you could do is try to talk to any woman they find attractive.
There's one personal trainer in particular who seems to feel very threatened by me when it comes to women for some reason. Each time he sees me talking to a woman, he looks at me from a distance and frowns. Yesterday while I was talking to the most recent woman, he was watching me the whole time frowning to see what would happen.
My question then to those of you who have dated multiple women at your gyms at the same time is, how did you guys do it without losing them all in the process? How did you guys still maintain respectable reputations despite being seen talking to so many women at once?
