Guys who are 40+ where are you most successful meeting women?

[Willard]

I've been meeting the majority of women I've been dating online, I've met some good ones, but they are few and far between. I've been going to club's in my area in S Florida, there are mostly girls in their early 20's which is fine for playthings but I prefer relationships.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

If you can do solid Day Game, any Panera Bread (especially in Central / South Florida) around lunchtime on a weekday is a ƒucking gold mine.

It's the perfect opportunity for an 'insta-date' and it's also got a time limit (gotta get back to work) so it's perfect for leaving her hanging, or hoping you'll show up the next day or the day after.

Your welcome

 

[LiveFreeX]

Or you can just GO ABROAD and meet some foreign women who can cook, clean and be greatful for the little things.

 

[resilient]

I never understood Panera Bread. It's like a cult or something. The gender ratio is 90/10. I don't get what that's always about. A Mexican fast food chain near me even remodeled all their locations to the Panera look. Down to earth. Adult top 40 music. Notice no mariachi music? Heh. They want people to stay a while and chit chat, etc.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Willard,
Nothing can compare to the Dance floor....but one may not be too promiscuous...Next best is the Public Library....Asian Groceries...The internet is a waste of time!

 

[BeDJ]

If you want to simply get laid, www.meetup.com.

 

[MOTU]

Today I am going on the prowl at the flea market.. I like them Latinas.

 

[Willard]

Great ideas, thanks.

 

[Triumph2]

Any other ideas, I am back in this after six years, no not in prison

 

[SgtSplacker]

I've been meeting the majority of women I've been dating online, I've met some good ones, but they are few and far between. I've been going to club's in my area in S Florida, there are mostly girls in their early 20's which is fine for playthings but I prefer relationships.

Crazy as it sounds, someone the other day told me Club Space is an older crowd and real good for forty somethings now...

I second Panera Bread also, it really is an anomaly there. The one in Boca is off the chain during lunch.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Whatever your expertise in life happens to be, find a woman who is interested in that subject, and she will immediately see value in you.

 

[poster_guy03]

On the weekends stop by a Home Goods store or a TJ Maxx. Those stores are crawling with women. Find a target and ask for some decorating help or make a comment about an object she's looking at....

 

[SgtSplacker]

Dam Sarge I didn't know you lived in Boca. There are some really HOT women down in SoFla. Makes Tampa Bay hotties look mild in comparison.

I like to think that the whole town of Boca is crawling with huge-boobied MILFs and Cougars.

The whole town of Boca is filled with huge boobed MILFs and cougars.

Everyone has plastic surgery here, everyone owns (or at least owned) a BMW. And that describes Boca in one sentence.

Where this area really opens up is by the beach. Everyone is really friendly for South Florida. Pretty girls will chat you up in a bar there no problem.

The Whole Foods in Boca is epic and leaves Panera in the dust. <== I fully understand the weight of this statement. It's the same girls in a bigger venue wearing work out clothes and spandex FTW.

I have actually considered taking a part time in the Whole Foods. Enterprise Virtualization Network Admin by day, bag boy by night, fuuck it. So what if I would be earning 1/5 of my salary? MILFs and boobiez makes it a good decision by me.

If you ever come down this way let me know and i'll share and possibly escort you to some of my SgtSplacker certified honey holes...

 

[GotED?]

I am having a kill with women from particpating in long distance hikes from MEETUP.COM

Second source is from mutual classes/workshops from my personal hobby that has 90% women ratio to 10% men and for some reason they all forget they are married or has a boyfriend suddenly.

Exodus

 

[Frogster]

What's your "personal hobby"?

Just asking. Your post seemed evasive, and some of us may be interested.

(unless it's gay porn)

 

[BeDJ]

What's your "personal hobby"?

I bet it's making jewelry, GotED! loves those granny cougars.


Meetup is a goldmine as he said. It is much more effective than cold approaching because they women there are also out to meet new people. I always approach with a fun and excited attitude. Be wild and carefree, have silly conversations. Get everyone at the event to like you and you will have your pickings near closing time. "Keep in touch" with your prospects and hit them up for a drink or two. I've had TONS more success now than when I did online dating. Maybe I'm just ugly.

 

[GotED?]

What's your "personal hobby"?

Just asking. Your post seemed evasive, and some of us may be interested.

(unless it's gay porn)

GAY PORN.





LOL - no, spiritual new age type of stuff such as meditation, yoga, holistic things.

 

[MOTU]

Reading this today I went and hung out at a Panera bread about 1:30. Still lots of chicks but all either too young, old or married. But I'll go back... I need a day game win!!