Hey youy all. THere is this girl that i had a PREVIOUS One-i-tis for. I was wondering if there was any possible way that i could rid myself of this unhealthy obsession. And I found out how to do it.
I find that One-i-tis is mostly a fantasy, a series of what-ifs and imaginary scenes of you and your object of desire. You So what did i do to rid (or atleast partially rid myself) of my obsession? What did i do to rid myself of putting her on a pedestal? I ASKED HER OUT. I realzied that if i did that, and she said no, it would be a lot easier to deal with because I would know that she wasnt interested. So i called her up and asked her for coffee. SHe said she would love to! I told her i want to watch all of the superbowl so ill call her after and she said ok. (The superbowl is more important for me
). By simply doing this, i've partially released my anxiety my constant curiosity of what-might-have-beens. So i will tell you how it goes but im ready.
I have a huge confidence boost right now. As a matter of ffact, right after she said yes to the date, i went to a college interview and i totally rammed it in the ass. The lady from the college LOVED me. I got her to talk a lot about herself and she almost forgot she was supposed to interview ME. Anyways, i wanted to share advice/the good news.
-I will become whatever i want to become.
I find that One-i-tis is mostly a fantasy, a series of what-ifs and imaginary scenes of you and your object of desire. You So what did i do to rid (or atleast partially rid myself) of my obsession? What did i do to rid myself of putting her on a pedestal? I ASKED HER OUT. I realzied that if i did that, and she said no, it would be a lot easier to deal with because I would know that she wasnt interested. So i called her up and asked her for coffee. SHe said she would love to! I told her i want to watch all of the superbowl so ill call her after and she said ok. (The superbowl is more important for me
). By simply doing this, i've partially released my anxiety my constant curiosity of what-might-have-beens. So i will tell you how it goes but im ready.I have a huge confidence boost right now. As a matter of ffact, right after she said yes to the date, i went to a college interview and i totally rammed it in the ass. The lady from the college LOVED me. I got her to talk a lot about herself and she almost forgot she was supposed to interview ME. Anyways, i wanted to share advice/the good news.
-I will become whatever i want to become.
