Got a lapdance...

[edger]

It means you still got allot of work to do on your game/self, there is no shortcuts in life if you want to achieve Supreme DJ status. There is sweat and blood.

No, my "work" on myself has already been done, I've already talked about this in another thread. My game is good. Definitely 95-97% there. And I'm a great looking guy on top of it. NOBODY's game is ever 100% good, otherwise you'd be perfect, and nobody's perfect. The areas where I imperfect it aren't even the significant areas. So, I should be pulling hotties like there's no tomorrow. I've analyzed and heavily scrutinized everything about my game..TRUST me, trust me, trust me, trust me, I'm not playing it wrong. Even Ketostix has acknowledged that even with good game, it's hard to bag hotties.

Don't get me wrong, I DO f*ck HOT women, just not with good consistency.

 

[edger]

That's certainly a losers mentallity. NO MAN in his 20s should be paying for a prostitute or an escort. I would say that something is SERIOUSLY wrong with that man.

Great advice.

So guru Latinoman, what does the man who has good game do then if he can't get hot women consistently?

 

[armadon]

No, my "work" on myself has already been done, I've already talked about this in another thread. My game is good. Definitely 95-97% there. And I'm a great looking guy on top of it. NOBODY's game is ever 100% good, otherwise you'd be perfect, and nobody's perfect. The areas where I imperfect it aren't even the significant areas. So, I should be pulling hotties like there's no tomorrow. I've analyzed and heavily scrutinized everything about my game..TRUST me, trust me, trust me, trust me, I'm not playing it wrong. Even Ketostix has acknowledged that even with good game, it's hard to bag hotties.

Don't get me wrong, I DO f*ck HOT women, just not with good consistency.

Dude you're on the internet everyone bangs hot women!!! I'm in your shoes though man I don't bang hotties all the time either but I can pull them in every once in awhile. Like 1 hottie for every 5 average. I won't pay for an escort or anything like that though.

 

[edger]

I won't pay for an escort or anything like that though.

And why's that?

 

[armadon]

And why's that?

I don't need to have sex every night. I'd rather use my money for drinking beer and having fun with a bunch of people on a night out. I don't see anything wrong with an escort or prostitution though so if that's your thing don't let people discourage you.

 

[( . )( . )]

That's certainly a losers mentallity. NO MAN in his 20s should be paying for a prostitute or an escort. I would say that something is SERIOUSLY wrong with that man.

To this day, I have NEVER paid for a prostitute or an escort. Will I in the future? I don't know.

I used to think the same thing...unfortunately your dead WRONG.

I once prided myself on never spending more than a hotdog, a beer and a pair of bowling shoes on ALL the chicks I've ever seen combined.

Guess what, I was kidding myself I forgot the petrol for hookups, phonecalls for setting up the meets, the booze and drugs taken in the places I wouldnt have gone if potential cvnt wasnt there, sh!t if you want to get technical I could go right down to the money spent on the kick azz clothing and cologne (and dont tell me you buy cologne ONLY and strictly to smell nice.) etc etc.

WE ALL PAY, AND ALWAYS WILL !, and never forget that.

Parroting social conditioning is a hell of a thing, gotta think outside the box sometimes mate.

 

[leoncour]

It means you still got allot of work to do on your game/self, there is no shortcuts in life if you want to achieve Supreme DJ status. There is sweat and blood.

Christ, some guys here get laid once a week without the need of strippers or escorts. How deprived are they?

So whats the difference between paying a broad money for sex versus taking her out to dinner and a movie for sex? In my opinion the former is a lot more straight forward and 100% successful.

 

[lordson]

but theres a higher chance of catching an STI

i wouldn't let a hooker give me a bj

 

[Juando]

but theres a higher chance of catching an STI

i wouldn't let a hooker give me a bj

I paid a hooker when I was 19; she was sweet. I'll never forget her.

And another one a few years later, she took me home and tried to entertain me in the bathroom while her family squabbled about something, just outside, oblivious to us...

Caught a couple of infections not from those two, but from random girls about town...

Can't get dogmatic about this stuff, there are times when it makes sense to turn to a professional, for a variety of reasons.

Sorry but I think American culture is so screwed up sexually that I usually avoid even getting into discussions about the topic. And this forum is good except when the morality police come out...

 

[leoncour]

Drink them and make small talk with the chic. Or if you don't want to talk to her, tell her to rub your back while you drink your drink. Or leave. your choice.

Just don't keep buying lap dances or drinks. That is what she is thinking "how much money can i squeeze out of this guy.."

Damn! I should have asked for a back rub! From a totally hot naked stripper. That would have been awsome! You guys have the best ideas...too bad I don't realize them until a few days after it happened.

 

[ZenGodMod]

So whats the difference between paying a broad money for sex versus taking her out to dinner and a movie for sex? In my opinion the former is a lot more straight forward and 100% successful.

Didn't i say its a CHEAP sexual trill! READ READ!

As for ( . )( . )'s

"Guess what, I was kidding myself I forgot the petrol for hookups, phonecalls for setting up the meets, the booze and drugs taken in the places I wouldnt have gone if potential cvnt wasnt there, sh!t if you want to get technical I could go right down to the money spent on the kick azz clothing and cologne (and dont tell me you buy cologne ONLY and strictly to smell nice.)"

To me thats called INVESTMENT on myself, and Paying Myself First, not to just to SHACK it up with a beatch who's hole is a public swimming pool.

You think i buy expensive shoes, expensive clothes and open top cars for the sole reason to bang the hottest skirt....wrong, i do it for myself, cause i love me, and I'm the biggest princess to I've know and i treat myself like it.

You're the guy who gets angry when you wine and dine a beatch and gets no returns. I'm the guy who goes home and thinks "nice wine, good restaurant, nice company, had fun! and next that beatch, thinking she worth a dam sh!t". I spend more on my friends and family, so what does that mean.

 

[frivolousz21]

paying directly for sex or this stuff would make me feel like the biggest loser of all time.

then again its logical to compare paying for drinks or dinner or movies or whatever date your on is a way of paying for sex in some aspect as well.

 

[Andromax]

No one here has addressed my original post...what do you do when they serve the drinks?

What you did was fine, if you were done.

If you wanted to make small talk, fine also but she would have just tried to get more $$ out of you, sooner rather than later. If you declined another lap dance for more $$ she would have moved on to another client.

So by buying her the redbull you had purchased a few more minutes to chit chat.

I personally wouldn't feel the need to emotionally connect with the stripper, but I guess having a hot naked chick, stripper or not, in close proximity isn't something to just get up and walk away from when they are giving you attention, even for the small price of a redbull!

 

[Andromax]

then again its logical to compare paying for drinks or dinner or movies or whatever date your on is a way of paying for sex in some aspect as well.

So when a chick cooks me dinner or buys me food, that means im a dirty pirate hooker?

 

[( . )( . )]

You're the guy who gets angry when you wine and dine a beatch and gets no returns. I'm the guy who goes home and thinks "nice wine, good restaurant, nice company, had fun! and next that beatch, thinking she worth a dam sh!t". I spend more on my friends and family, so what does that mean.

No I'm the guy whos pretty much neutral on the whole thing nowadays, and if you read my post properly you would see I dont wine and dine chicks.

I once prided myself on never spending more than a hotdog, a beer and a pair of bowling shoes on ALL the chicks I've ever seen combined

You have simply managed to justify all $$$ spent (I buy expensive sh!t JUST for me yada yada) great. But thats irrelevant to the point I made to latinoman.

 

[Señor Fingers]

Nevermind the cash, Tits.

What about our most precious commodity... TIME!!!

Either way you pay. And the investment only makes sense if you are getting something out of it (besides a holster for your penis)

 

[Paradox]

No one here has addressed my original post...what do you do when they serve the drinks?

That's funny. 15 posts later and no one has still answered the original question.

When they serve the drinks you sit and make small talk with the stripper. The drinks put more money in the clubs pocket. Then when you finish the drink guess what.....Time for another lapdance. Then another drink, some more small talk. Then another lapdance. And $400.00 dollars later it is time to go home because the club is closing


To add to the other conversation I've dated strippers before and it is a pain in the ass. If you are the jealous type then don't try it. In fact just don't try this. She may always be the prettiest girl in the room but she is also the most emotionally, mentally unstable girl in the room.

 

[edger]

paying directly for sex or this stuff would make me feel like the biggest loser of all time.

It used to make me feel like a loser too..but I realize that the problem doesn't lie within me(I have my game intact to where it's about 97% tight, apply everything on this site, and on top of that I'm a good looking guy). Sometimes you're left with absolutely no choice but to pay. It sux that it has to come down to that, but what are you gonna do. Men have it rough.

 

[MatureDJ]

This is an interesting thread.

I would say that romantic interactions with women fall into 2 categories - those with serious intentions (or at least the honest possibility), and those without. I would venture to say that a man would have more integrity by paying for sex in some way (prostitute, stripper, webcam girl, etc.) rather than pursuing a woman with which he has no serious intentions. A man who would use such a woman is really treating he like a prostitute and not paying for it.

This would also hold true for men who are not ready to commit. I would say that the man who pays for a pro has more character than the man who gets a regular girlfriend that he has no desire in marrying (at least within her time frame.)

And with the possibilities of an 18 year accident with the wrong woman, it sure seems like a safer bet to have no possible legal entanglements.

 

[MatureDJ]

It used to make me feel like a loser too..but I realize that the problem doesn't lie within me(I have my game intact to where it's about 97% tight, apply everything on this site, and on top of that I'm a good looking guy). Sometimes you're left with absolutely no choice but to pay. It sux that it has to come down to that, but what are you gonna do. Men have it rough.

You do have a choice. You could hook with up with the crazy, tattooed, obese single mother living in the trailer park. But you choose not to. You would rather have a woman that is sane, attractive, childless, and with class. But you are not able to find such a woman with regularity.

Although you think your game is intact, perhaps it is not. Similarly, you are probably not as attractive as you think. But irregardless, you are a horny man with some extra spending cash, and getting this service satisfies your need. We've all been there. So have Charlie Sheen and Eliot Spitzer. Even the stud Rhett Butler from "Gone With The Wind" has been there.