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Good comeback to "I miss you"!?

NickBe

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"I miss you too (insert name that isn't hers)"

Obviously do it jokingly
 

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erm, maybe it's really unDJish of me, but I usually just tell them I did miss them too (even if I didn't)
 

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That works obsidian...

I hate it when people ask for these generic responses, women are unique one response wont suit all. Some might get offended some might love it. DJ's should take time to get to know the girl they are talking to not spend all their time recalling the canned lines they learned.
 

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Obsidian said:
erm, maybe it's really unDJish of me, but I usually just tell them I did miss them too (even if I didn't)
Its not unDJish.

(to everyone) Remember, if she says it first, and you simply repeat it back, then you're just saying the natural thing because she said it. One can take the wise cracks and tough-guy jerk thing so far, that it can eventually just become annoying to her and she might eventually not even take you seriously.

To be AFC is to say it first. That's what you don't want to do (IMO). Saying it first is to actually mean it, and expresses inherent neediness.
 

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Well, if you DO miss her back, don't tell her, otherwise the entire facade you've built will crumble.
 

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How about "Okay, then let's get together this weekend."?
It's a command not a question. If she balks you say "Guess you don't really miss me then." If she says OK, plan something really cool and fun so she'll remember it.
 

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RogueWarrior said:
How about "Okay, then let's get together this weekend."?
It's a command not a question. If she balks you say "Guess you don't really miss me then." If she says OK, plan something really cool and fun so she'll remember it.
We have a winner.
 

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I would go with the "I miss me too." - depending on how much she can take a joke. If she seems to be the more serious type and you just said something really ****y/funny with her a moment ago, i would go with what Rogue suggested.
 

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RogueWarrior said:
How about "Okay, then let's get together this weekend."?
It's a command not a question. If she balks you say "Guess you don't really miss me then." If she says OK, plan something really cool and fun so she'll remember it.
Eh, I wouldn't even give her the hint to plan something for the weekend. She's supposed to be a big girl, she should be able to suggest something herself.
 

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if its in person you can try what i did and hopefully pull it off with great success.

girl: i miss you
me: (goes in and kisses her)
me: ...i didnt know any other way of shutting you the fvck up
 

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If she says she misses you, it doesn't really matter what you say because she's obviously into you, as long as you don't be a wussbag. You could say

"Prove it" and pull her in for a hug and a kiss.
"I know, I'm so 'missable'".
"I've missed you, too, with every shot so far".
"I've missed you, too. Uh, what's your name again?" They'll laugh at this one, guaranteed!
 

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
Totally forgot to add that the girl is my ex and I haven't seen her in 3 years.
Doh! Lock the thread! :kick:
 
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