Need to just vent. :cuss:
I hooked up with this girl at a Halloween party. I've been keeping casual contact with her via texting (once a week). She lives in Penslyvania so I was hardly going to be visting her. Still, she comes up to Boston occasionally so I thought it'd be a good contact to keep up.
This paid off this weekend as she was visiting a friend in Newport. The original plan was for her to go out with her friend on the Friday and to get a room for us on the Saturday (sounded like a good way to spend Saturday night).
I drive down yesterday and plans had changed. Its now apparently ok for me to stay in the friends place as well. Her friend had also got the night off work so was able to head out. I meet them at a restaurant as they're finishing up eating. There's actually 3 of her friends there. A little awkward but I kept up convo to some extent.
We go back to the friends' place afterwards and one of the friends starts showing he two others eventually head off to bed (12ish) but this other friend stays up and says "lets go to x bar to meet by bf for last round" Me and the other girl are feeling a bit tired but she agrees as they're good friends :cuss: We go for a drink and I'm thinking the friend is surely gonna head off with her bf and leave us alone.
Not a chance! She invites me and my girl back to the bf's place for drinks. She whilst seemingly being polite to me was actually being nasty. She never introduced her bf to me, showed little interest in what I had to say and just acted cold. In hindsight I should have said we were gonna go back home at this point as we were beat.
This ***** keeps up constant chat with my girl at her bf's house till 3 in the morning! I'm struggling to keep my eyes open (was out on Friday) She was the only one of the 4 who wanted to stay up. I was chatting to her bf and we were both kinda looking at the two of them in a "when are they gonna stop talking" manner. Eventually me and my girl leave to walk to the friend's house thinking that the friend is gonna stay at her bf's house. Wrong! She bolts after us and asks to talk to my girl whilst looking close to tears. She then says that we should come back and that she'll drive us back! I have never seen such consistent ****blocking.
Thankfully, we don't go back and she goes back my herself. However its now nearly 4 and my girl wasn't up for sex as her friend went at her about "respecting the house" ?? I was fingering her when her phone rings! That ***** called her checking up that she had gone to sleep. She even came back from her bf's place after about 30 minutes. I figured I could have got past my girl's resistance if I wasn't so tired. So a seemingly sure booty call ruined thanks to an utter ***** of a friend.
Really pissed off at the moment. I definetly should have been more assertive but from previous experiences, I never win if I try and go head to head with a girl's good friend. Her other two friends seemed to like me enough to leave us be but this one never left ***** mode.
I hooked up with this girl at a Halloween party. I've been keeping casual contact with her via texting (once a week). She lives in Penslyvania so I was hardly going to be visting her. Still, she comes up to Boston occasionally so I thought it'd be a good contact to keep up.
This paid off this weekend as she was visiting a friend in Newport. The original plan was for her to go out with her friend on the Friday and to get a room for us on the Saturday (sounded like a good way to spend Saturday night).
I drive down yesterday and plans had changed. Its now apparently ok for me to stay in the friends place as well. Her friend had also got the night off work so was able to head out. I meet them at a restaurant as they're finishing up eating. There's actually 3 of her friends there. A little awkward but I kept up convo to some extent.
We go back to the friends' place afterwards and one of the friends starts showing he two others eventually head off to bed (12ish) but this other friend stays up and says "lets go to x bar to meet by bf for last round" Me and the other girl are feeling a bit tired but she agrees as they're good friends :cuss: We go for a drink and I'm thinking the friend is surely gonna head off with her bf and leave us alone.
Not a chance! She invites me and my girl back to the bf's place for drinks. She whilst seemingly being polite to me was actually being nasty. She never introduced her bf to me, showed little interest in what I had to say and just acted cold. In hindsight I should have said we were gonna go back home at this point as we were beat.
This ***** keeps up constant chat with my girl at her bf's house till 3 in the morning! I'm struggling to keep my eyes open (was out on Friday) She was the only one of the 4 who wanted to stay up. I was chatting to her bf and we were both kinda looking at the two of them in a "when are they gonna stop talking" manner. Eventually me and my girl leave to walk to the friend's house thinking that the friend is gonna stay at her bf's house. Wrong! She bolts after us and asks to talk to my girl whilst looking close to tears. She then says that we should come back and that she'll drive us back! I have never seen such consistent ****blocking.
Thankfully, we don't go back and she goes back my herself. However its now nearly 4 and my girl wasn't up for sex as her friend went at her about "respecting the house" ?? I was fingering her when her phone rings! That ***** called her checking up that she had gone to sleep. She even came back from her bf's place after about 30 minutes. I figured I could have got past my girl's resistance if I wasn't so tired. So a seemingly sure booty call ruined thanks to an utter ***** of a friend.
Really pissed off at the moment. I definetly should have been more assertive but from previous experiences, I never win if I try and go head to head with a girl's good friend. Her other two friends seemed to like me enough to leave us be but this one never left ***** mode.