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Don Juan
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Well, first of all let me begin by saying, this forum has given me the encouragement and helped with my techniques to land me in bed with a HB 7-8 so thanks to everyone..
Im 23 yr old
Now on to my issue.... I've been friends with this chick from school since the beginning of the semester, so about 4 weeks. She invited me over to her place to watch a movie and we started making out. After about making out for 5 minutes, I didn't get hard so I decided I'll just end it right there and try again another day since I knew I would have another chance.
Well day 2 comes along, started making out but my buddy downstairs didnt seem to want in on the action yet so I went down on her and ate her out while feeling up on her body. Nothing from the penis even after this point when she was putting her hand down my pants to return the favor. It was soft, and that was a bit embarrassing so we kinda stopped and kept watching the movie. She asked why my "friend" didn't like her and I didnt know what to say cept that I was tired or something like that. Eventually I got a somewhat hard on, not really that firm but it was enough for her to give me head which was great, but I was still down since it wasnt a hard erection.
Day 3 now and ate her out again and made out for a while, cuddled with her and she started rubbing her hot naked ass against my schlong but it wouldnt budge, didnt get hard at all.. So I just gave in and was like.. "yeah I dont know wtf is going on, I havent had this problem before.. I'm just not getting hard".. Then she asked me why. I said it was because I was anxious and also it could have been the Xanax I was taking for the anxiety and I was coming off of it (i was about 3 days off the Xanax so it couldnt really have been that, but it could have been anxiety).. Anyways, spent the next several hours in bed trying to get it hard and she was real cool about it and we talked about lots of different stuff. This felt like it alleviated my anxiety a lot, but still no hard on. So I just don't get it. Well the night finished off with her getting her vibrator and getting off to that with a little help from me heh (LAME)
I've had the erection problem before when Id go limp on the act sometimes with my gf of 5 years, but never had it this bad. I would still get the morning wood and hard when just laying in bed with a girl... But it seems like since I have stopped masturbating a month ago it has only gotten worse. I also stopped watching porn completely. I did this thinking I would get my d!ck back to 100%.. I just dont get turned on when making out or foreplay anymore like when I was going through puberty. Used to have no problem. Seems like my libido has hit rock bottom or something.. Got my Testosterone checked and its in the normal range, although at the low end. Was suggested by endocrinologist that it was performance anxiety since I told him I get hard while masturbating (not too easily tho), but im not so sure about his opinion so I made an appt with a urologist to get a 2nd opinion.
I tried a 50mg of viagra but it was 3-5 hours before we actually got making out and trying to **** again and it didnt work. Not sure if I took it too early or what.
I dont know what to do, im getting mad depressed, and I just want to fck her brains out cause I know she wants it from me. Ill have several more chances to make it work, and need as much advice as possible.
Need some advice, encouragement, someone who can relate and what they did to help the situation. Anything will help. This f'ing sucks, im 23 yrs old I shouldnt be having this problem..
All you peeps who dont have this problem are so fortunate you dont have this problem. When you think you have a problem for not being able to talk to chicks or getting into bed with them, it cant get as bad as this. Just think about that next time you get nervous about talking to a chick, that it could be worse.
Thx
Im 23 yr old
Now on to my issue.... I've been friends with this chick from school since the beginning of the semester, so about 4 weeks. She invited me over to her place to watch a movie and we started making out. After about making out for 5 minutes, I didn't get hard so I decided I'll just end it right there and try again another day since I knew I would have another chance.
Well day 2 comes along, started making out but my buddy downstairs didnt seem to want in on the action yet so I went down on her and ate her out while feeling up on her body. Nothing from the penis even after this point when she was putting her hand down my pants to return the favor. It was soft, and that was a bit embarrassing so we kinda stopped and kept watching the movie. She asked why my "friend" didn't like her and I didnt know what to say cept that I was tired or something like that. Eventually I got a somewhat hard on, not really that firm but it was enough for her to give me head which was great, but I was still down since it wasnt a hard erection.
Day 3 now and ate her out again and made out for a while, cuddled with her and she started rubbing her hot naked ass against my schlong but it wouldnt budge, didnt get hard at all.. So I just gave in and was like.. "yeah I dont know wtf is going on, I havent had this problem before.. I'm just not getting hard".. Then she asked me why. I said it was because I was anxious and also it could have been the Xanax I was taking for the anxiety and I was coming off of it (i was about 3 days off the Xanax so it couldnt really have been that, but it could have been anxiety).. Anyways, spent the next several hours in bed trying to get it hard and she was real cool about it and we talked about lots of different stuff. This felt like it alleviated my anxiety a lot, but still no hard on. So I just don't get it. Well the night finished off with her getting her vibrator and getting off to that with a little help from me heh (LAME)
I've had the erection problem before when Id go limp on the act sometimes with my gf of 5 years, but never had it this bad. I would still get the morning wood and hard when just laying in bed with a girl... But it seems like since I have stopped masturbating a month ago it has only gotten worse. I also stopped watching porn completely. I did this thinking I would get my d!ck back to 100%.. I just dont get turned on when making out or foreplay anymore like when I was going through puberty. Used to have no problem. Seems like my libido has hit rock bottom or something.. Got my Testosterone checked and its in the normal range, although at the low end. Was suggested by endocrinologist that it was performance anxiety since I told him I get hard while masturbating (not too easily tho), but im not so sure about his opinion so I made an appt with a urologist to get a 2nd opinion.
I tried a 50mg of viagra but it was 3-5 hours before we actually got making out and trying to **** again and it didnt work. Not sure if I took it too early or what.
I dont know what to do, im getting mad depressed, and I just want to fck her brains out cause I know she wants it from me. Ill have several more chances to make it work, and need as much advice as possible.
Need some advice, encouragement, someone who can relate and what they did to help the situation. Anything will help. This f'ing sucks, im 23 yrs old I shouldnt be having this problem..
All you peeps who dont have this problem are so fortunate you dont have this problem. When you think you have a problem for not being able to talk to chicks or getting into bed with them, it cant get as bad as this. Just think about that next time you get nervous about talking to a chick, that it could be worse.
Thx
