Maverack said:
Hey guys. Just wanted to ask your opnion on something. I've had this girlfriend for like about 5 months or so. And our relationship is good. But just recently she met one of my best friends. She just seems too friendly with him. Like saying stuff like "Oh he seems so nice" And "what is his background" and "Oh doesn't he play on a baseball team? Isn't he really good" Stuff like that. It just seems like she's into him or something. Should I ignore this?
I think this all depends on the type of guy he is and the type of friend he is. If he is the kind of buddy who would never take a friend's girl, then you have nothing to worry about. He will deflect her. Or if he is the type of guy who has a girlfriend, gets plenty of girls or just doesn't give a sh!t that a random female is coming on to him, then you again have nothing to worry about.
On the other hand, if he is a guy who is the complete opposite and will hit anything with two legs and a hole between them, then you're going to run into some issues.
To combat this, do something to show her how much other girls value you. I wouldn't bring any other girls home or cheat on her because that's not merited at this point. Rather, I would take your girl out for a night on the town and put yourself in a situation where you know other girls are going to hit on you. If that means that you have to invite out a girl who you know wants your sack (all respectable guys have them), then do that. If you do have a girl who could fill this role for you, I would lead her on real bad when I asked her to meet up with me. That way, she'll be warmed up when she arrives. It doesn't even matter if this decoy girl is attractive or not. It's a woman's nature to be jealous, even if the girl she is being jealous over isn't attractive. Women can talk themselves into anything.
My group of friends from high school are total AFCs, and their girlfriends all used to come on to me. I'd deflect the attention until the girl got the point. I think only once have I ever had a friend's girlfriend make a physical move at me, and I believe that was right around the time high school ended/college began. Quite a while ago in other words. So if your friend is a solid guy, I'd say there is very, very little chance she will cheat on you with him. Although, I think you have some issues on a much broader level because she admires your friend way too much. If you're instincts are telling you she seems interested in your friend, then that's probably the case.
If you still don't know, ask yourself this: Does she talk about him more than your other friends? If so, is she trying to seem interested in your life or is she attracted to your friend more than you? I guess that's for you to decide.