Mr.Fantastic
Don Juan
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So, my girlfriend of around three months is starting to get on my nerves. I don't think its totally her fault, but she has a few problems, let me outline them.
At the moment her life is a bit of a wreck and she is quite ill. She has been recently told that her life long back condition will prevent her from becoming the nurse that she wanted to be. This has made her very upset and she cries a lot because of it. On top of this she has a real bad cold and an ear infection which means she is very snotty and muscussy.
The illness is making me fancy her a lot less, and on top of this she keeps telling me about how her father used to hit her, and how there are problems with her home life, and how her ex-boyfriends used to hit her and how she lost her virginity at aged 14. She keeps telling me this stuff, saying 'I shouldn't have told you that' and 'whenever I meet a guy I like I scare him away by telling him these things, freaking him out'.
Now I said im not freaked out, but I actually am, and she allways wants me to come round and look after her and I am just getting a bit tired of it. I don't want to hurt her, but I'm also not sure what I want to do with the relationship. I don't feel like im getting much out of it. She's a real nice girl, but is becomming an emotional strain.
At the moment her life is a bit of a wreck and she is quite ill. She has been recently told that her life long back condition will prevent her from becoming the nurse that she wanted to be. This has made her very upset and she cries a lot because of it. On top of this she has a real bad cold and an ear infection which means she is very snotty and muscussy.
The illness is making me fancy her a lot less, and on top of this she keeps telling me about how her father used to hit her, and how there are problems with her home life, and how her ex-boyfriends used to hit her and how she lost her virginity at aged 14. She keeps telling me this stuff, saying 'I shouldn't have told you that' and 'whenever I meet a guy I like I scare him away by telling him these things, freaking him out'.
Now I said im not freaked out, but I actually am, and she allways wants me to come round and look after her and I am just getting a bit tired of it. I don't want to hurt her, but I'm also not sure what I want to do with the relationship. I don't feel like im getting much out of it. She's a real nice girl, but is becomming an emotional strain.