Jaylan said:
^Kid, you messed up big time. She was interested, but you went about things the wrong way. When you pressure and rush young girls into sex the way you did, thats what happens. Girls like her want to feel at ease and comfortable when they have sex with a boy. They dont want to feel pressure.
Just let it go and treat her like you would any other girl you are not interested in. Tbh, a lot of the advice you read on this forum is to be applied to grown WOMEN, not young highschool good girls who have no (or little) sexual experience whatsoever. When it comes to girls like that, you have to show you understand them and that its not about getting your dik wet. You gotta take your time and slow down...swinging for the fences scares a lot of these girls off, even if they originally wanted the sex.
Go for the slvtty girls like I said, if you want easy quick sex.
yeah, i was rushing things.
another thing happened yesterday.
first im going to tell what happened days before, saturday i was mad and didnt talk to her and she either, we were supposed to go to a party. so on sunday i texted her and she said she is mad bc i didnt talk to her all saturday blablbla, after a few exchanges i said ok talk you later when you are not angry. then on monday she said to me the i dont feel the same blablá.
so then at night her mother(i saw both of them in dance clases and greet them like anyother person). when im leaving dance classes sent me a text saying why we fight and wht happened. i said ask your daughter. then her mother tells me, shes mad bc i dindt talk to her on saturday, that i talk to her whenever i want, that she is crying, and she wouldnt be crying if she care for me. i said ok im going to talk to her.
i sent the girl a text saying im going to call you, she said she need headphone to talk by phone bc it doesnt work well and she doesnt have right now. we started talking by text of what happened she threw at me lot of ****, that she is really mad, that i was a jackass, she cant be with a person she doesnt feel anything, that i talk to her when i want, blablbla.
i dont know how i ended up saying ok lets meet and talk better, she said no i dont want to, call me. after a few exchanges of me saying no to calling, i end up saying ok, ill call you tomorrow at x time. she said ok, im going to sleep. and she algo got mad at her mother and stopped talking to her.(bc she was talking about me to her) and said to me not to talk to her mother.
and her mother telling me that her daughter is mad at her, to wait for her to calm down, to have patience.
all of this just bc i didnt talk to her on saturday.
wft. yeah i know i did everything wrong. she is ****ing crazy. what do you think guys?