Girl punched me in the face so I pimp smacked her...

[Bokanovsky]

This whole "law" thing is a bit of a head scratcher for me personally - I don't think our law is as biased towards women as yours (in the US). Well I hope not anyway... Either way, I'm more for standing up for myself and for what I believe in than anything else. Value for value we're all EQUAL people, no one deserves to be physically attacked - "just because she's a women" doesn't justify anything.

The law itself does not distinguish between males and females when it comes to criminal assault. Unfortunately, cops, prosecutors and judges often do. The probability of a woman being prosecuted, let alone given a serious sentence for assaulting a man is fairly low. It's all part of the systemic bias against men in the modern society.

 

[Bible_Belt]

http://legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/Self-Defense

a person may use reasonable force when it appears reasonably necessary to prevent an impending injury.

In order for a man to exercise self-defense against a woman, I would think she would probably need to have a weapon. If she comes at you with a kitchen knife, then yes, break the b!tch's face. But otherwise unless she's 300 pounds and you weigh half that, it's going to be hard to make the case that a reasonable person would believe she was about to injure you.

My point with all of this lecture is that there is a big difference between fairness and the law. It is fair that you should get to hit someone back who hit you. They deserve it. But that's not nearly the same as it being legal. A Ravens running back recently got into an argument with his trashy woman at a casino; she spit on him, and he retaliated by punching her in the jaw, knocking her out cold. Did she deserve it? Yes. Was it legal self-defense? No, not at all.

 

[YawataNoKami]

Are you dating Jodi Arias?

 

[Yo'Mama]

Clearly the thing to do would have been to not hit her back, because as several posters have said the law won't be on your side.

Then one day when she isn't expecting it, follow her, wait until nobody is about and then go to town on her!

Keep that pimp hand strong yo.

 

[Polish Rifle]

I think you're asking the wrong question here. It doesn't matter if it is right/wrong that you hit her, at this point. The real issue is that she crossed a physical boundary. I've actually been with a girl like this before and I tolerated a few swings and was tempted to hit back, but I should have been out the first time she lashed out.

These girls need to learn that you can't treat people that way. Don't reward her in anyway, not your c0ck, not your money and definitely not your time.

 

[Frogster]

My wife was abusive the first year of our marriage.

Never too violent, but the occasional slap or punch. ALWAYS disrespectful.

So I put up with it the first few times, then one day she slapped the back of my head while I was driving. I left her and her pregnant sister standing on the curb. They had to find their own way home.

Never happened again, and we've been married for 23 years.

 

[El Payaso]

For a reply that is less sarcastic and way out of line from what most posters are going to say here...

Never hit a woman.

I don't care what your feelings are on double standards, feminism, etc. I don't care if she hit you first.

You're a man. You're bigger than her. You're stronger than her. If a child hits you, do you punt him across the yard?

If a woman punches you, you walk away and never ever ever ever ever see her or speak to her ever again. That's the difference between a strong man and a "strong" man.

Edit:



Read that back to yourself. Dangerous way to think. There is no denying that retaliation is in order, but that retaliation is walking away immediately and never contacting her again. To let your emotions get the best of you and use your physical strength against someone who is considerably outmatched is an "AFC" way of thinking. The DJ/Alpha that we encourage men to be on here would not be so reactionary that he'd get violent towards a woman, no matter the behaviour...

...Of course, a DJ/Alpha wouldn't allow himself to get involved with a woman like this in the first place.

Except this is an ADULT not a child. >_>

 

[Bible_Belt]

A Ravens running back recently got into an argument with his trashy woman at a casino; she spit on him, and he retaliated by punching her in the jaw, knocking her out cold. Did she deserve it? Yes. Was it legal self-defense? No, not at all.

As a postscript to that story, they got married the following weekend. Both of them have pending assault charges.

 

[lgbs2004]

Absolutely. I don't care if it's a man, woman, transgender, hermaphrodite or whatever. If you're being assaulted, you have every right to fight back. The idea that women are "untouchable" is complete and utter B.S. (and is the ultimate manifestation of white knightery/blue pill thinking). Women are not delicate flowers; they are just like men, except for their lack penises and Y-chromosomes. Sure, they are a bit weaker on average than men, but they can still cause serious damage. I mean, we have women in the military and police forces these days!

Women have fought hard to achieve equality. When a woman commits assault, she should be given a full dose of equal treatment

^^THIS^^ True, true and true!

 

[Born_Again]

i would press charges quickly and quietly.
so that she doesn't have time to put you in jail.
i don't know where you're from but in the us the guy are at a disadvantage.

 

[Pardner]

I would stay away from her in the future. she can still press charges against you.