Hey so here's the DL
I've been dealin with this girl for two weeks... always talking to each other and stuff like we're boyfriend/girlfriend. She is attracted to me, she started liking me first cuz I put up the challenge. She knows that we're eventually going to be together.
So yesterday, she went to a party, and she knows that when she gets drunk/tipsy... she get's clingy to people.
So she told me ahead of time that she's gonna drink and probably do stuff with people if she gets tipsy.. and I gave her the ok go ahead on it. She even apologized ahead of time if she does stuff with people.
Now the next day, she tells me that she got drunk and madeout/kissed someone 5 times and kissed her ex who was at the party once. Keeping in mind that I DID tell her it's ok...
Should I be tieing her down and tell her that I don't want her to be doing this kind of stuff with other people now?
The reason I was indifferent to it was because I didn't want to seem insecure and tell her not to do this kind of stuff. When I told her I was going to go clubbing, (grinding and kissing other girls) she gave me the go ahead too. But I was mature/devoted enough not to go.
Keeping in mind that we're going to be girlfriend/boyfriend (I'm gonna ask her out) in about 2 weeks (cuz this is a long distance relationship.. and that's when I get to see her) should I have told her no?
It's a simple matter of would saying no be insecure? and did I make a mistake by not being insecure about it?
I've been dealin with this girl for two weeks... always talking to each other and stuff like we're boyfriend/girlfriend. She is attracted to me, she started liking me first cuz I put up the challenge. She knows that we're eventually going to be together.
So yesterday, she went to a party, and she knows that when she gets drunk/tipsy... she get's clingy to people.
So she told me ahead of time that she's gonna drink and probably do stuff with people if she gets tipsy.. and I gave her the ok go ahead on it. She even apologized ahead of time if she does stuff with people.
Now the next day, she tells me that she got drunk and madeout/kissed someone 5 times and kissed her ex who was at the party once. Keeping in mind that I DID tell her it's ok...
Should I be tieing her down and tell her that I don't want her to be doing this kind of stuff with other people now?
The reason I was indifferent to it was because I didn't want to seem insecure and tell her not to do this kind of stuff. When I told her I was going to go clubbing, (grinding and kissing other girls) she gave me the go ahead too. But I was mature/devoted enough not to go.
Keeping in mind that we're going to be girlfriend/boyfriend (I'm gonna ask her out) in about 2 weeks (cuz this is a long distance relationship.. and that's when I get to see her) should I have told her no?
It's a simple matter of would saying no be insecure? and did I make a mistake by not being insecure about it?