Girl called me a ***** because I wouldn't ask her out..

[Grimple]

Heh, so there is this girl that likes me. I kind of like her too, I guess. We flirt A LOT, in one of my periods. And sometimes during lunch etc.. like holding hands, and massively cuddling etc.. everyone thinks we're going out. But we're not.. she brings it up almost like everyday. The only thing is, I don't feel like having a gf right now.. I haven't told her this. I didn't want to piss her off, or to jepordize anything, so I just kind of ignore it. But today, she called me a *****, and was giving me hints like crazy. And ahg, now I'm just confused about it all. At first I wanted to go out with her, but then I changed my mind. Now I kinda do, but I'm not sure. All I want right now is some fun, I don't think I need a relationship.. but idk. Just the fact she called me a ***** today irratates me. It got to me.

Now, even if I did ask her out... i would still look like a *****. Because then it would look like I waited so long to muster up the balls.. and also the fact that tomorrow is our last day at school.. hehehe, what a ***** thing to do is ask someone out before break. I guess most would say "better late, than never" but then again, I'm not even sure. and this girl is pressuring me like crazy

what would a dj do?

 

[Raikojo17]

better late than never. ask her out. u wont look like a coward, she'll probablly except because she's been waiting so long for it.

 

[WC2]

Trust me, if you don't want a relationship now, you're not going to want it any more when you get into it. If your mind is telling you that you want to be single, then it's obviously not the right girl.

Move on, stay in touch with the girl, but open up other options

 

[ValleyDJing]

I say ask her out. Wasted opportunities will haunt you.

 

[Berlex]

yeah ask her out, have a lil fun

 

[Phyzzle]

The difference being, don't ask her to be your girlfriend. Just say, there's this cafe/restaurant/park/place that she'd like, and she should go along with you this Thursday or something. Don't mention anything about relationships, let her decide all that.

 

[Docs]

I also didn't ask out certain girls only to miss the train.

And..if it doesn't go well, you LJBF her.

 

[Thomas94305]

Hey.. if you ask her out, do it because YOU want to, not because SHE wants you to. If YOU don't want to ask her out, without embarassment, say "no thanks". You don't owe her an explanation of why.