Waittoday1
Don Juan
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- Nov 24, 2018
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QI have a girl at work that I like, use to be same department now different (and I told her this, regretfully I told other people to every1 at work knows so now I say I don’t like her), most times she doesn’t seem to respond in ANY positive way whenever Im around her . we hardly say anything to one another!, however we have had conversations we use to text and she would normally always reply, and even flirt on top of that when food came at work she would ask me to get her it it and be really friendly.
A mate told me she thinks im a downgrade! She even moved away from me when I put my arm round her at a party!
I’ve spoken to a friend and in accordance to his instructions I have started to ignore her totally, unless she initiates even then one word answers, work on myself ie gym for 2-3 months and once I look and dress better then talk to her, which will also improve my confidence (he says it will defiantly work but I’m sceptical) what if I do ALL then I lose her totally!??
I don’t want to ignore her and lose her being my friend. btw I managed to get her number with persistence via another friends procedure. but then she doesn’t even invite me to her bday even though most others got one! Am I nothing to her?? Or is she intimidated by me?
I’m gonna ask her why she didn’t invite me but she will just make up an excuse
I want to be her boyfriend if not a very close friend at the very least!
What should I do?
Thanks ,
A mate told me she thinks im a downgrade! She even moved away from me when I put my arm round her at a party!
I’ve spoken to a friend and in accordance to his instructions I have started to ignore her totally, unless she initiates even then one word answers, work on myself ie gym for 2-3 months and once I look and dress better then talk to her, which will also improve my confidence (he says it will defiantly work but I’m sceptical) what if I do ALL then I lose her totally!??
I don’t want to ignore her and lose her being my friend. btw I managed to get her number with persistence via another friends procedure. but then she doesn’t even invite me to her bday even though most others got one! Am I nothing to her?? Or is she intimidated by me?
I’m gonna ask her why she didn’t invite me but she will just make up an excuse
I want to be her boyfriend if not a very close friend at the very least!
What should I do?
Thanks ,