Firedweller
Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 20, 2014
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- 18
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Before it was annoyingly high, constant attention wanted and given, never disrespectful, stuck to plans etc. A year into the relationship, I can see the trend changing.
For the past fortnight, she messages back several hours later, doesn't care if I call at night, and canceled our last two dates just hours before they happened.
Most of you will say next her, but I am going to step back from the relationship and not plan anything with her or making unnecessary communication. I am not bitter, it's just I have been here before in relationships and when I was a total AFC three years ago, I stepped up the communication, told her I loved her more frequently and was 'there' for her all the time - as if I did something very wrong which I was trying to make up for.
If I see that she's hanging with a guy or doing something shifty, I will dump her but I don't think 2 weeks of low IL warrants that in my book. I know her father has been sick this past month but I don't buy that it's the reason. When girls are into you, they will step over anything to show you that they are keen.
Btw, the two times she canceled, she had reasons so didn't just cancel if that makes a difference.
For the past fortnight, she messages back several hours later, doesn't care if I call at night, and canceled our last two dates just hours before they happened.
Most of you will say next her, but I am going to step back from the relationship and not plan anything with her or making unnecessary communication. I am not bitter, it's just I have been here before in relationships and when I was a total AFC three years ago, I stepped up the communication, told her I loved her more frequently and was 'there' for her all the time - as if I did something very wrong which I was trying to make up for.
If I see that she's hanging with a guy or doing something shifty, I will dump her but I don't think 2 weeks of low IL warrants that in my book. I know her father has been sick this past month but I don't buy that it's the reason. When girls are into you, they will step over anything to show you that they are keen.
Btw, the two times she canceled, she had reasons so didn't just cancel if that makes a difference.