Liquid Oxygen
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Hi guys. I wanted to start with a positive thread about how sosuave has changed my life and gotten me girls but I would appreciate your opinion first.
Gf tells me one night that her dad wants her to go on a date with the son of his business partner (who's been trying to get her to date his son). they don't know about us. She tells me she doesn't want to go and her friends advised her to act boring and not interested so he will be turned off. she's been ignoring repeated calls from from a number she doesn't recognize. She says she thought she should let me know and that she doesn't want to see this guy. However she thinks she needs to accept dinner with him to get them to leave her alone as she can't keep feigning busy.Then:
Me: you can tell him you're not interested in dating right now.
GF: my dad will keep telling me to give him a chance. Besides, he might be nice and become just a guy friend(?)
Me: great and since you told him ur always busy invite me and your good friend lucy who u also finally have time for.
GF: haha no one said i couldn't. But i know what my dad means and he'll be upset unless i give him a chance before i say no(excuse again?) I thought i should let you know. I like you. And it doesn't mean anything to me. Are you okay with it?
Me: I don't like it
GF: I wouldn't like it either. I'll do my best to avoid it.(gut says it will happen) If i tell him about us I know I won't be able to go out or go to new york with you.
Can you guys advise me on situations similar for future girls? Is this disrespect (she is on a date) or am i making a big deal over nothing? Should i act like nothing's wrong or was it fine to tell i don't like it? I dislike the situation. (that she can't/won't say no)
Not the whole convo: all i can remember.
Gf tells me one night that her dad wants her to go on a date with the son of his business partner (who's been trying to get her to date his son). they don't know about us. She tells me she doesn't want to go and her friends advised her to act boring and not interested so he will be turned off. she's been ignoring repeated calls from from a number she doesn't recognize. She says she thought she should let me know and that she doesn't want to see this guy. However she thinks she needs to accept dinner with him to get them to leave her alone as she can't keep feigning busy.Then:
Me: you can tell him you're not interested in dating right now.
GF: my dad will keep telling me to give him a chance. Besides, he might be nice and become just a guy friend(?)
Me: great and since you told him ur always busy invite me and your good friend lucy who u also finally have time for.
GF: haha no one said i couldn't. But i know what my dad means and he'll be upset unless i give him a chance before i say no(excuse again?) I thought i should let you know. I like you. And it doesn't mean anything to me. Are you okay with it?
Me: I don't like it
GF: I wouldn't like it either. I'll do my best to avoid it.(gut says it will happen) If i tell him about us I know I won't be able to go out or go to new york with you.
Can you guys advise me on situations similar for future girls? Is this disrespect (she is on a date) or am i making a big deal over nothing? Should i act like nothing's wrong or was it fine to tell i don't like it? I dislike the situation. (that she can't/won't say no)
Not the whole convo: all i can remember.
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