Gf going to hang out with ex

[In2theGame]

Topics like this and the fvckin AFC symps on here still question why I promote the Tom Leykis show so much?

Anyway yeah I obviously agree with T!ttyman and persistant exaction.

Put a stop to this sh!t immediately and if she disagrees you and she are done.

She is going to get fvcked by this guy if she goes to see him.

Chicks that still want to associate with their ex without a good reason for doing so like say them sharing a kid together are bad bad news.

(Note: Though you shouldn't be involved with a chick with a kid anyway)

They are still hung up over their ex and want to go ride the ex's c0ck again and ride away in the sunset with that ex far away from you if possible.

I agree with Kontroller, especially about the part where she might get F*cked because thats whats on the Ex's mind guarenteed.

BTW, Kontroller Where the F do u get these quotes in ur location describtion? lol whats next? "Preparing to invade AFC's across the globe with DJ ammunition"? nice quotes though. good stuff.

 

[SomethingClever]

A real Don Juan wouldn't sweat it because he has plenty of girls. Don't sweat it, and just hang out with other girls. What she's doing is the ultimate test. She wants to know if you're secure, confident, and if you have self-respect. You already failed by showing her it bothers you. Either hang out with other girls or walk away. A Don Juan has better things to do then deal with drama.

 

[( . )( . )]

Dude why are you trying to act cool to a bunch of guys dedicated to improving their game?

I can see using an ironic sense of humour to point out this guy's problem was lost on you, so we'll stick with the basics eh, something you can maybe understand?




..Neck up faggot.

 

[DJDamage]

well i was suppose to hang out with my girl tom but cant due to work. she is going to hang out with her ex instead who moved back to the city

That is a b1tch behaviour right there. Doesn't matter if you are from a westernize nation or a lost Brazilian tribe, you don't replace your BF with an ex just because he is busy with work and now you don't have any plans. Either stay home or go shopping with the girls but hanging out with a guy who's d1ck she used to be sucking on is out of the question.

anyways it got me really mad and i tried not show jealous but i lost it and got mad with her and started yelling.

Showing to her that you are mad or even when you start to yell, shows her your lack of control and your emotional vulnerability, which is a bad thing 'cause she now knows she can manipulate you.

You quietly tell her in a calm voice and a cold stare, that a girl in a relationship with you has no business hanging out with the ex. If she protest, pouts or even goes to see him despite what you told her, consider that a huge red flag and you should really be considering getting rid of this girl. Remember she is willing to put a strain on your relationship just to see an old flame??? what kind of B.S is this??!!

With any relationship with a girl, you need to establish very early on that you won't tolerate bvllsh1t and that your word is bond (you mean what you say and your actions dictates that). Also make sure your girl is aware that there are plenty of other women that would be happy to jump on your d1ck if you decide to end things (that would keep her in check, keep her interest in you high and instil the fear that if she misbehaves she might end up losing you for another woman.)

then after a while I calmed down and told her I was fine with it that i had to get it off my chest. .

Big mistake. Never backtrack especially if you know that you are right!

She knows you are not fine with it.

KX and T!ttyman, pretty much nailed it.

 

[emelec]

idk guys she says she only hung out with him for 2 hours but I call bull. im not even gonna call her tonight. im seeing her tom. so should i bring it up and say what comeback kid said or just forget about it and see if she brings him up again? i dont even know wheter to start a fight with her or play it cool.

 

[oakraiderz2]

idk guys she says she only hung out with him for 2 hours but I call bull. im not even gonna call her tonight. im seeing her tom. so should i bring it up and say what comeback kid said or just forget about it and see if she brings him up again? i dont even know wheter to start a fight with her or play it cool.

Only 2 hours??? What the hell did they do? Im pretty sure if she said she went to visit him for 30 min thatd be one thing, but hanging out for hours at a time seems kinda sketch IMO.

 

[Bloke]

So her X sends her an e-mail declaring his love for her. You say she screwed her over some how. And she goes & sees him ?

She's still hung up on her X. If she gaves 2 sh*ts about what you think she wouldn't have gone seen him. Don't think for second she doesn't know what she's doing is wrong.

It's over between yas. Move on.

 

[L.A. Tripp]

idk guys she says she only hung out with him for 2 hours but I call bull. im not even gonna call her tonight. im seeing her tom. so should i bring it up and say what comeback kid said or just forget about it and see if she brings him up again? i dont even know wheter to start a fight with her or play it cool.

My money says in those two hours he f.cked her senseless. Seriously. If I'm wrong, cool, but that's my thoughts. No matter WHAT her intentions were, HIS were to have sex with her, period.

What she did was flat out WRONG. She does NOT consider your feelings, OR your relationship with her, or she WOULD NOT have done it. I am involved with two different women right now, MLTR's. This sh.t wouldn't stand.

This is what you do. Tomorrow, when she wants you to hang out with her, tell her no, because you are hanging out with one of your HOT ex's. Hint: Don't say "I'm hanging out with my hot ex" rather "im hanging out with such and such" who she KNOWS is HOT. Got it? See what HER reaction to you is.

Man, you may as well be ready to part ways with this girl.

 

[SharinganUser]

You know if you didn't have the conversation about exclusivity, then you should cool it with this girl for a while and go have some fun with some other hot girls.

What ever you do DO NOT INVEST ANY MORE EMOTION INTO YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH HER!!

I think you should just make a stand and dump her before you get dumped by her.

 

[In2theGame]

idk guys she says she only hung out with him for 2 hours but I call bull. im not even gonna call her tonight. im seeing her tom. so should i bring it up and say what comeback kid said or just forget about it and see if she brings him up again? i dont even know wheter to start a fight with her or play it cool.

WHat?? she hung out with him? for 2 hours? if i were you, i would of broke it off right there. WTF dude come on! Let me ask you a question..... HOW DO YOU KNOW! SHE DID NOT SUCK HIS C**CK IN THOSE "INNOCENT" 2 HOURS??

She played you just by seeing him again. PERIOD.

 

[mrRuckus]

Dude why are you trying to act cool to a bunch of guys dedicated to improving their game?

(.)(.) used simple, short language to sum up an entire thread of wordy posts.

Really, what do you THINK you do when your gf wants to hang out with her ex? Actually getting jealous isnt' a negative thing like women make it out to be (because it acts to prevent them from doing what they choose to do). This is the reason you have this emotion. It gets you going enough to prevent some assh0le from stealin what is yours.

t1tties dude knows there's a hugely high chance of her getting c0ck in her mouth while out with him and you'd have to be functionally retarded to allow it to happen under any circumstances other than you dumped her and she needs to go cry about it to him.

fvck it why am i typing this

Although tests are never usually concious anyways

Never usually, huh?

 

[KontrollerX]

Here's how the conversation will probably go tomorrow...

emelec: So what happened?

Girl: Nothing OMG!!!

emelec: I can tell you are not telling the truth.

Girl: *Breaks down crying* He kissed me.

emelec: You mean you kissed him.

Girl: Waaaaaaaaaaaahhh!!!!!!!!!!!

The last part is chick translation for what another poster in here already said...

"He fvcked her senseless".

Good luck with this emelec.

You shouldn't even go and talk to this cvnt after this kind of disrespect.

You should cut contact and see if she comes around begging and even if she begs you should be done with her over this but I know you won't be.

You are going to take her back if she begs you and you are going to kiss that mouth that has just a day before given the most wicked bl0wjob this side of a Jenna Jameson porn to her ex boyfriend and taken his load in her mouth and c0ck in her ass.

You will do this, you will put yourself through such a dishonorable degrading situation due to a complete lack of options.

 

[slickaz]

You: Hey listen woman...in truth call it whatever but im not going to sit here and tell you what to do, but dont expect me to be ok with what you're going to do, just remember what you decide to do today will decide if im in your life tomoro...

add that to what else is said here...

leave it in her court...this is best thing that can happen to you..
because now! is when you will find if the girl is worthy to be kept as an ltr or just another hole...
if she goes to see him, assume shes fvkd him and leave..do not ask for reasons or listen to excuses..wether she did the deed or not is regardless...she may not do it today but she may tomoro...because NO guy goes back to an x just to say hi..cmon we're all been there when you break up...or you're single..and you think of at ltr and you get an urge to have her back..then you do..one night later..you're sic of her again..

be strong in your words and go through with it...so you know you did the right thing for YOU.

who the fvk is she that you need to please her by taking this garbage she feedin you? she aint yo mum, dad, or employer....the only read 3 most important relationships you NEED to maintain...

she doesnt pay you nor did she birth you..so kerb her if she fvk around

 

[Aragon034]

I'm tempted to say some of the harsher opinions on this thread are due to bitterness, but i know better and now you do too.

You don't have to put up with this kind of disrespect, in anything except what Slickas mentions and sometimes not even then (you can get a better job, you don't HAVE to see your parents once you're old enough)

Seriously, she's not worth your time or effort if she's going back to her ex for any reason other than professional. She told you so she can feel better about herself and sucking his ****.

Learn a hard lesson and never fall victim to it again.

P.S. Uhh, the Apache doesn't have a .50 cal... it's a 30mm cannon. You might be thinking of the Kiowa which has an M2 50 cal machine gun.

 

[parrot84]

I'm tempted to say some of the harsher opinions on this thread are due to bitterness, but i know better and now you do too.

You don't have to put up with this kind of disrespect, in anything except what Slickas mentions and sometimes not even then (you can get a better job, you don't HAVE to see your parents once you're old enough)

Seriously, she's not worth your time or effort if she's going back to her ex for any reason other than professional. She told you so she can feel better about herself and sucking his ****.

Learn a hard lesson and never fall victim to it again.

P.S. Uhh, the Apache doesn't have a .50 cal... it's a 30mm cannon. You might be thinking of the Kiowa which has an M2 50 cal machine gun.

Some fycking day our BOY kids are gonna' have a special computer like the STAR TREK ones, and they are gonna' build their own WOMEN and program them to make sex all the time only with them ... NO FYCKING HILARIOUS SITUATIONS LIKE THIS where the BAD BOY screws the chick like a fycking supernova exploded and the SUCKER stays at home with his freaking dock in his hand!

 

[L.A. Tripp]

so emelec, what's the update here?

 

[KontrollerX]

I'm guessing the update would be pretty much what I laid out in my post above.

 

[Metaphysical]

Here's how the conversation will probably go tomorrow...

emelec: So what happened?

Girl: Nothing OMG!!!

emelec: I can tell you are not telling the truth.

Girl: *Breaks down crying* He kissed me.

emelec: You mean you kissed him.

Girl: Waaaaaaaaaaaahhh!!!!!!!!!!!

The last part is chick translation for what another poster in here already said...

"He fvcked her senseless".

Good luck with this emelec.

You shouldn't even go and talk to this cvnt after this kind of disrespect.

You should cut contact and see if she comes around begging and even if she begs you should be done with her over this but I know you won't be.

You are going to take her back if she begs you and you are going to kiss that mouth that has just a day before given the most wicked bl0wjob this side of a Jenna Jameson porn to her ex boyfriend and taken his load in her mouth and c0ck in her ass.

You will do this, you will put yourself through such a dishonorable degrading situation due to a complete lack of options.

thank god you still post here. finally some more light in the darkness

i wish we could spread the light to all the guys here but some just don't want to listen.

 

[The Bat]

Hmm...aren't you the same guy who had sex with your ex while you were still dating this same girl (the virgin)?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=151362 (Thread where you talk about your g/f of 3 months being a virgin)

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=150215 (Thread where you talk about losing your v-card to your ex)

Now, I'm not going to give you a morality lecture on cheating. That's up to you to figure out.

What I will say is that there is no reason for you to getting upset over your g/f hanging out with her ex, while you were cheating on your g/f with your ex.

Makes you a bit of a hypocrite.

Solution in this situation would be to break it off with your g/f because you disrespected yourself by cheating on her in the first place. If you KNOW that you can't stay sexually exclusive to one girl, then why bother becoming exclusive with her in the first place?

You're 18 dude. Stop getting into relationships. Bang lot of girls! Don't become exclusive with any of them. Why put yourself through all the trouble of cheating on your g/f?