Chrispy said:
Sometimes it is not really a choice..if you really like someone, and she has lots of time (she's not working so many hours that she has time for you) she wants to spend with you...it can be overwhelming when you're used to having lots of alone time.
I agree with the previous poster who said that this is okay early in the relationship. Maybe after a few months, if you still feel the same way, it might be time to re-evaluate the situation
bs, I am in relationship with my girlfriend right now and although we do spend a significant amount of time together (excluding football games because I am the mascot and she is in the band), we spend only what free time that we have.
Sometimes, I will just not hang out with her for a couple of days. A relationship must have both you and her time, but also must have your own time.
If you have lots of hobbies and groups. I keep myself busy by joining college clubs and activities such as "On the edge of honor" (a sword fighting club from the middle ages), "cool cats swing club" (although she wants to join that too), "MU Cycling team" (a bicycle club), a christian club, Student Business Association (business majors only), and a few others that I just visit. I also have studying of core economic, business, and philosophy classes to study. Usually my girlfriend is the last thing on my mine of things to get done or see.
She doesn't b!tch at me to spend massive amounts of time with her and we have been going out/seeing each other for six months.
You should NEVER let your girlfriend become your world because if she is gone, then your world is gone. I try to keep myself very busy plus I always have stories to tell her when I do meet up with her.
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