goneforaride
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I dont know if this is the right place to put it but I'm gonna put it here.
For the last 2 months I've been with the perfect girl for me, shared many happy times and she has turned me from an 18 year old depressed boy to an 18 year old happy guy with the best things happening for him.
About a month into our relationship her best friend got dumped by his girlfriend, so she was always with him, just being there for him. He wasnt exactly just any best friend, he was her ex, and her first real "love" (If you can call it that at our age)
Because she was with him so much she came to realise how much she actually still liked him, (he dumped her and hurt her (this was two years ago, and has continually told her to **** off then come back for more help, he's kind of using her and I don't want her hurt)
Anyway yesterday I went to see her at work because she wanted to talk to me, I knew it was that she was going to break it off because she said we hadnt been working well, I loved this girl so much I was more than willing to keep trying, and to work stuff out. Because no matter who you are every relationship has problems in it.
She told me it wasnt just because we wernt working but also because she liked her ex again, this kind of came to me as a shock but at the same time it wasnt that hard to see.
So anyway she's asked for some time to herself just to see what's going on in her head. She really just wants to be mates because I can tell that I'm second best to her ex.
I really like this girl and I don't know what I should to. Pressuring her into wanting me again will just make her not want me, and leaving it will hurt me too much. I'm a real emotional mess at the moment because of this, she ment alot to me. So if she does realise she still wants me then I want to be able to still want her, and not be over her.
Just to let you know I have only had one girlfriend like her before and that relationship lasted a year. She is the best thing that's happened to me so letting go of her wont be easy.
For the last 2 months I've been with the perfect girl for me, shared many happy times and she has turned me from an 18 year old depressed boy to an 18 year old happy guy with the best things happening for him.
About a month into our relationship her best friend got dumped by his girlfriend, so she was always with him, just being there for him. He wasnt exactly just any best friend, he was her ex, and her first real "love" (If you can call it that at our age)
Because she was with him so much she came to realise how much she actually still liked him, (he dumped her and hurt her (this was two years ago, and has continually told her to **** off then come back for more help, he's kind of using her and I don't want her hurt)
Anyway yesterday I went to see her at work because she wanted to talk to me, I knew it was that she was going to break it off because she said we hadnt been working well, I loved this girl so much I was more than willing to keep trying, and to work stuff out. Because no matter who you are every relationship has problems in it.
She told me it wasnt just because we wernt working but also because she liked her ex again, this kind of came to me as a shock but at the same time it wasnt that hard to see.
So anyway she's asked for some time to herself just to see what's going on in her head. She really just wants to be mates because I can tell that I'm second best to her ex.
I really like this girl and I don't know what I should to. Pressuring her into wanting me again will just make her not want me, and leaving it will hurt me too much. I'm a real emotional mess at the moment because of this, she ment alot to me. So if she does realise she still wants me then I want to be able to still want her, and not be over her.
Just to let you know I have only had one girlfriend like her before and that relationship lasted a year. She is the best thing that's happened to me so letting go of her wont be easy.