Hey guys, I'm gonna share a story with you. I'm 20, I've been coming to this site since I was about 17, but I haven't really been applying any of the principles until just recently.
I met this girl in the cafeteria this week, a solid 7/10, real good personality. I got her phone number, and she came over to my apartment to watch a movie tonight.
When the movie was over, I went in to kiss her. She said no, and I learned something in the process. I learned that getting rejected is the price of doing business with women. Not every girl I meet is going to have good taste in men, and not every girl is going to be head over heels in love with me. And that's fine with me.
The fact that I didn't get laid, or whatever, tonight, serves as a learning lesson for me. I used to work at a telephone interviewing company, and if I would have given up after the first time I got turned down, I would have never made any money. Tonight, I saved two things:
1. Any money I would have spent on dates with this girl, and
2. Any time I could have spent picking up other women.
If you're afraid to lose, you can never win. Tonight, I risked losing this girl, and I probably did. But it doesn't concern me. Women are everywhere. If I would have been afraid to kiss this girl, I would have lost her anyway. If she wants to call me, then she can, and I'll show her the time of her life. And if shes doesn't, I really didn't lose anything anyway. I lost an hour of my life, and that's pretty insignicant. The fact that she didn't choose to kiss me teaches me that I can't expect every woman in the world to be head over heels for me. So I see this "rejection" as the part of doing business with women. So my lesson to you is, don't be afraid to lose. I lost tonight, and I've never felt better about it.
Good night.
I met this girl in the cafeteria this week, a solid 7/10, real good personality. I got her phone number, and she came over to my apartment to watch a movie tonight.
When the movie was over, I went in to kiss her. She said no, and I learned something in the process. I learned that getting rejected is the price of doing business with women. Not every girl I meet is going to have good taste in men, and not every girl is going to be head over heels in love with me. And that's fine with me.
The fact that I didn't get laid, or whatever, tonight, serves as a learning lesson for me. I used to work at a telephone interviewing company, and if I would have given up after the first time I got turned down, I would have never made any money. Tonight, I saved two things:
1. Any money I would have spent on dates with this girl, and
2. Any time I could have spent picking up other women.
If you're afraid to lose, you can never win. Tonight, I risked losing this girl, and I probably did. But it doesn't concern me. Women are everywhere. If I would have been afraid to kiss this girl, I would have lost her anyway. If she wants to call me, then she can, and I'll show her the time of her life. And if shes doesn't, I really didn't lose anything anyway. I lost an hour of my life, and that's pretty insignicant. The fact that she didn't choose to kiss me teaches me that I can't expect every woman in the world to be head over heels for me. So I see this "rejection" as the part of doing business with women. So my lesson to you is, don't be afraid to lose. I lost tonight, and I've never felt better about it.
Good night.
