jlujan
Don Juan
I am going to see my girlfriend tonight at 6pm, i think i am getting the axe, let me first explain the backround to this story:
I knew her since highschool, we where friends and thats it, we met about a month ago and she initiated contact with me, told me she liked me a lot, talked about a possible future, introduced me to her parents, and stuff like that, i really liked this girl, even do i felt she was going too fast at the start. Anyways, we went out and truly felt like we had found an incredible relationship, i opened my heart and all that and everything seemed to be fine, we hold hands, hugged, and pretty much everything except kissing. This past Thursday ( i saw her Wednsday), i started calling her and i got the feeling she was not as enthusiastic as before, so i call Friday even do i was busy at work, i also got the feeling she was a little cold, on Saturday, i call her in the morning to see what was up, she told me to call her later on tonight to see, so i call her back later and shes like, lets see each other tomorrow, and i was pissed off, i am like, look, i am making an effort to call like an idiot here, at the very least, tell me you dont feel like seeing me so i can stop making a fool of myself.
Sunday i call and shes like "i am working", lets see each other tomorrow, and i am like really mad and shes like, "why are you so cold to me, why are you treating me like this?" so i am like theres no problem, we need to talk, so we hang up, later on, i am making a BBQ at my place, so i call her to mend the problems and invite her over, she tells me shes going to be here and never makes it.
This morning i call, and shes like "sorry, i felt sleep" and i am like look, we know each other from Highschool, before anything we are friends, why dont you tell me whats goin on? so shes like we need to talk, and i agree, so we are going to meet each other at 6 pm and want to get feedback from you guys to handle the situation, i like her and wish i could be with her, but i dont want to make a fool of myself, and i am not about to beg.
Advice is what i need.
I knew her since highschool, we where friends and thats it, we met about a month ago and she initiated contact with me, told me she liked me a lot, talked about a possible future, introduced me to her parents, and stuff like that, i really liked this girl, even do i felt she was going too fast at the start. Anyways, we went out and truly felt like we had found an incredible relationship, i opened my heart and all that and everything seemed to be fine, we hold hands, hugged, and pretty much everything except kissing. This past Thursday ( i saw her Wednsday), i started calling her and i got the feeling she was not as enthusiastic as before, so i call Friday even do i was busy at work, i also got the feeling she was a little cold, on Saturday, i call her in the morning to see what was up, she told me to call her later on tonight to see, so i call her back later and shes like, lets see each other tomorrow, and i was pissed off, i am like, look, i am making an effort to call like an idiot here, at the very least, tell me you dont feel like seeing me so i can stop making a fool of myself.
Sunday i call and shes like "i am working", lets see each other tomorrow, and i am like really mad and shes like, "why are you so cold to me, why are you treating me like this?" so i am like theres no problem, we need to talk, so we hang up, later on, i am making a BBQ at my place, so i call her to mend the problems and invite her over, she tells me shes going to be here and never makes it.
This morning i call, and shes like "sorry, i felt sleep" and i am like look, we know each other from Highschool, before anything we are friends, why dont you tell me whats goin on? so shes like we need to talk, and i agree, so we are going to meet each other at 6 pm and want to get feedback from you guys to handle the situation, i like her and wish i could be with her, but i dont want to make a fool of myself, and i am not about to beg.
Advice is what i need.
