You know the type.
She's the girl with the looks and personality, that flirts with everyone (and I mean, everyone).
I've encountered such a girl before. A few years ago I may have been easily manipulated and pushed into the wrong trains of thought about them. After all, their common habit is to lure men in like a lava lamp, giving false hope, and eventually getting the majority of them burned.
Anyway, I now know of another one. She's about a 7 or an 8, closer to an 8 I'd say. I've spoke to her a couple of times, know about as much as her name. As expected, she's overly nice, and borderline flirtacious - obviously fitting the description.
So how do you get through to one of these?
Take a couple of days ago. It was lunch. She was alone. Within about 30 seconds a guy sat next to her. Then another one. And then another one. By the end of lunch, she was surrounded by four guys - all poor to average in looks, one or two in particular obviously with low self esteem and commonly gravitating towards her every lunchtime (hence the typifications of her being a "sunshine" girl). She does have friends, they are girls. These guys definitiely not them.
I don't want to be one of those guys.
I want to stand out. I don't want to fall into the obvious trap all of those guys are in.
How do you get their attention - how do you be unique and different, show you're interested in her but be separate in her mind to the others that haunt her on a regular basis?
Or should she not be touched at all?
She's the girl with the looks and personality, that flirts with everyone (and I mean, everyone).
I've encountered such a girl before. A few years ago I may have been easily manipulated and pushed into the wrong trains of thought about them. After all, their common habit is to lure men in like a lava lamp, giving false hope, and eventually getting the majority of them burned.
Anyway, I now know of another one. She's about a 7 or an 8, closer to an 8 I'd say. I've spoke to her a couple of times, know about as much as her name. As expected, she's overly nice, and borderline flirtacious - obviously fitting the description.
So how do you get through to one of these?
Take a couple of days ago. It was lunch. She was alone. Within about 30 seconds a guy sat next to her. Then another one. And then another one. By the end of lunch, she was surrounded by four guys - all poor to average in looks, one or two in particular obviously with low self esteem and commonly gravitating towards her every lunchtime (hence the typifications of her being a "sunshine" girl). She does have friends, they are girls. These guys definitiely not them.
I don't want to be one of those guys.
I want to stand out. I don't want to fall into the obvious trap all of those guys are in.
How do you get their attention - how do you be unique and different, show you're interested in her but be separate in her mind to the others that haunt her on a regular basis?
Or should she not be touched at all?