yes, alot of you might judge what i'm doing to be wrong so if you don't like it then click the back button. otherwise bear with my little essay first and then help me out. 
So pickup and "game" has def improved my life, all aspects; it's allowed me to be more confident and secure with myself, my personality, my wants, needs and desires. it has helped me meet awesome people and believe it or not it has even helped me at a job interviews where after five ****in' minutes i'm toyin' with the employer because i'm so sure i've landed the job. And obviously, the reason i got into pick up...to meet plenty more women... it has served it's purpose and got me laid...alot.
To give you a little history;I grew up in the city and I was always a fairly popular guy growing up and thought of myself as quite the playboy, a nickname of mine for some time was "stifler". I was pretty successful in getting girls but at some point I got sick of the type of girl I'd hang out with (if you live in a big city you should know the type...the inner city european sluts...snobby superficial girls that really add nothing of use to my world except for ass). Right around that time i started watching "keys to the vip" and ended up reading "the game" and obviously thought it was pretty cool, i got more involved with the pickup arts, started out with some canned lines and they kinda worked a few times. Got me a few girls that i'd meet up for a **** once in a while, couple of one night stands here and there. I started getting much more involved in natural and inner game as i saw it as refinement of characteristics i already possessed.
Now, I'm not a guy that's in it for the numbers, maybe i watch too many movies but i definitely think i'd be happy with the right girl. I had an image of what this right girl was and formed an imaginary checklist in my mind. after then it was just a question of going out meeting people, getting to know them and see how i felt and how close to this "ideal girl" image they were. So i went through a phase of dating around and let me tell you there is nothing more fun! I learned to be very honest with the girls i was seeing and let them know that it was not exclusive unless we talked about it and it felt right. Eventually i did meet the girl who was about as close as it gets to my ideal girl and then began a relationship with her. The problem is that i wasn't ready to meet her, I still had alot more to get out my system (example. asian girls with BIG BOOBS, yeah..exactly!). We did begin a relationship though and believe me i had the best time of my life with her. However that feeling wasn't going away, i still had more travelling to do, more to see and learn and experience and obviously more to ****.
We eventually broke up about a year ago (took some effort on my part to convince her it was for the best) and kept in touch. for the first few months after the breakup we were practically **** buddies and at the same time I got around to doing everything (and everyone) i wanted. Didn't tell her about this just because she didn't need to know and get hurt (she had seen a guy during that time too). Anyway so she moved away to another city for a few months and met new people and eventually began dating a new guy. i was a little annoyed but wasn't too concerned about it, i even visited her just over a month ago with some friends and ended up having sex with her (friends were not involved in our sex session). Anyway a few weeks ago after a historic st paddy's day, i decided that it was time i kick start the romance again even though i'd done extremely ****in' well over the last few months and lived life to the fullest, sometimes you know that it's time to slow it down.
So what do i go and do? i tell the girl that i wanted her back (huge mistake, put the ball into her court) and she tells me that she is happy with how things are with her boyfriend and wants to move on. Now obviously i wasn't buying that. I told her that was fine and that i wanted to cut contact with her for a while then so she could move on properly and then i'll maybe see her again next month once she moves back into town (and starts a long distance relationship with her bf, this seems too easy haha)
Now i'm sorry if what i'm about to say offends you but my happiness is more important to me than whoever this guy is that she is seeing so to put it simply, i'm just gonna have to seduce her when she gets back into town and then if she chooses me, i'm happy. I've learned over the last few years that settling for anything less than the best is a terrible choice in life, unfortunately I wasn't the best boyfriend to her towards the end as i was subtly convincing her to break up with me, but to me, she's the best type of girl you can possibly meet and i won't settle for second best. Now like i said, check your morality at the door and help me figure out how i'll go about doing this. I know a lot of you out there will understand the female mind much better than i do so i'll take your input!!
So pickup and "game" has def improved my life, all aspects; it's allowed me to be more confident and secure with myself, my personality, my wants, needs and desires. it has helped me meet awesome people and believe it or not it has even helped me at a job interviews where after five ****in' minutes i'm toyin' with the employer because i'm so sure i've landed the job. And obviously, the reason i got into pick up...to meet plenty more women... it has served it's purpose and got me laid...alot.
To give you a little history;I grew up in the city and I was always a fairly popular guy growing up and thought of myself as quite the playboy, a nickname of mine for some time was "stifler". I was pretty successful in getting girls but at some point I got sick of the type of girl I'd hang out with (if you live in a big city you should know the type...the inner city european sluts...snobby superficial girls that really add nothing of use to my world except for ass). Right around that time i started watching "keys to the vip" and ended up reading "the game" and obviously thought it was pretty cool, i got more involved with the pickup arts, started out with some canned lines and they kinda worked a few times. Got me a few girls that i'd meet up for a **** once in a while, couple of one night stands here and there. I started getting much more involved in natural and inner game as i saw it as refinement of characteristics i already possessed.
Now, I'm not a guy that's in it for the numbers, maybe i watch too many movies but i definitely think i'd be happy with the right girl. I had an image of what this right girl was and formed an imaginary checklist in my mind. after then it was just a question of going out meeting people, getting to know them and see how i felt and how close to this "ideal girl" image they were. So i went through a phase of dating around and let me tell you there is nothing more fun! I learned to be very honest with the girls i was seeing and let them know that it was not exclusive unless we talked about it and it felt right. Eventually i did meet the girl who was about as close as it gets to my ideal girl and then began a relationship with her. The problem is that i wasn't ready to meet her, I still had alot more to get out my system (example. asian girls with BIG BOOBS, yeah..exactly!). We did begin a relationship though and believe me i had the best time of my life with her. However that feeling wasn't going away, i still had more travelling to do, more to see and learn and experience and obviously more to ****.
We eventually broke up about a year ago (took some effort on my part to convince her it was for the best) and kept in touch. for the first few months after the breakup we were practically **** buddies and at the same time I got around to doing everything (and everyone) i wanted. Didn't tell her about this just because she didn't need to know and get hurt (she had seen a guy during that time too). Anyway so she moved away to another city for a few months and met new people and eventually began dating a new guy. i was a little annoyed but wasn't too concerned about it, i even visited her just over a month ago with some friends and ended up having sex with her (friends were not involved in our sex session
). Anyway a few weeks ago after a historic st paddy's day, i decided that it was time i kick start the romance again even though i'd done extremely ****in' well over the last few months and lived life to the fullest, sometimes you know that it's time to slow it down. So what do i go and do? i tell the girl that i wanted her back (huge mistake, put the ball into her court) and she tells me that she is happy with how things are with her boyfriend and wants to move on. Now obviously i wasn't buying that. I told her that was fine and that i wanted to cut contact with her for a while then so she could move on properly and then i'll maybe see her again next month once she moves back into town (and starts a long distance relationship with her bf, this seems too easy haha)
Now i'm sorry if what i'm about to say offends you but my happiness is more important to me than whoever this guy is that she is seeing so to put it simply, i'm just gonna have to seduce her when she gets back into town and then if she chooses me, i'm happy. I've learned over the last few years that settling for anything less than the best is a terrible choice in life, unfortunately I wasn't the best boyfriend to her towards the end as i was subtly convincing her to break up with me, but to me, she's the best type of girl you can possibly meet and i won't settle for second best. Now like i said, check your morality at the door and help me figure out how i'll go about doing this. I know a lot of you out there will understand the female mind much better than i do so i'll take your input!!
