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Gentlemen, what are some good ways to last longer?

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I know thinking about something else is probably the most common method, but it's kind of hard to focus on a bad thought when some woman is on top of you.

So other than just concentrating on something disgusting, what are your best methods for going on and on?
 

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Alright, I'll take my shot before we get all the moronic responses that this question is gonna spark.

Try slowing down during "high's in the action."

A condom a lot of times will lessen the sensitivity; should be using one already anyway.
 

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Pull on your b$lls man. When the testicles get close to the body is when you come. Pull down on them and see if that works. Throw her in doggystle and dont let her see you pulling on them. It worked the first time for me. Go figure!!
 

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Picture your moms face on the girl.

No seriously, ever try viagra?
I use it once in a while, but its annoying because if i dont get laid im walking around with a boner for like 6 hours.
 

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have more sex more often, you begin to become accustomed to the sensations and can last much longer. Also, after you nut, see if you can get 'er up for round two. chances are your girl will be more than happy and you will last much longer second time around.
 

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Get Trojan "Her Pleasure" condoms, they desensitize your dlck so it takes you longer to orgasm. Also, unless you have stamina issues, after coming, just go again, maybe give yourself a little "downtime" after orgasm by fingering her or making out erotically and then get back into it.
 

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When you jerk off right before you ***, stop for alittle bit. Then start again. This **** works wonders.
 

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work out ur PC muscle if you don't know what that is look in any search
 

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:D

I tested out some methods.

Remember to breath! I had to constantly remind myself to take deep breaths. And women like to her you breath heavily(they like to hear you moan, but I feel ridiculous doing that).

Flex your abs as hard as you can. It distracts your mind a little, and I've read it draws some blood away from your boys, allowing you to last longer.

Don't concentrate on your naked grandmother(or whatever). I read it's better to concentrate on everything you are doing OTHER than pumping her. It seems to work. I thought about her lips and neck and the blankets on her bed, etc. I thought about how cold her room was and how my ass was freezing. Just don't focus on the actual act.

And, wear a condom! They really kill the feeling. Plus, they can save your life.

That's what I did and she said she had multiple orgasms. I almost reached the limit once, but I stopped before the evening was cut short. After that, I thought I could go on forever.

I worked out good.
 

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Wow, amazing! Not one single goofy response to this thread.
All the advice above is very good, specially tryin' again, if you are very turned on, you can perform again, and you'll last longer.
 

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Ok guys, this is gonna be the first piece of goofy advice:
How about buying and practicing with an artifical *****?lol

I know it sounds funny, but actually it might help, cause youre practicing and practice makes better...but actually that`d mean practicing to jerk off would help too (probably it does and we dont realize it lol)

Any of you guys ever tried such a thing? (Dont be ashamed if u did, nobodys gonna laugh at u ;-))

Ohh and by the way I guess u could also just practice jerking off and trying to last longer...kinda stop when your about to nut..someone gave that advice on some other post.

peace
 

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these xxxx were supposed to read puzzy. I didnt just edit my last post, cause im really interested if anyone ever tried such a thing and if I had just edited it yall woulda prolly thought it was just some kinda silly joke.
 

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Make her come faster

Do it while she is laying down and you are perpendicular to her body--that is you're chests aren't touching like in the missionary position. Then rub her ****oris while you're thrusting. You can make her come as fast as you do--3 minutes.

Or have her rub her ****oris while you're thrusting.


The problem with mutual orgasims is that the **** isn't in
the Vagina where it should be! But the most sensitive part of a man is the tip of the penis and it's getting all kinds of stimulation from the thrusting. The **** isn't getting that much stimulation.


Someone please tell GOD!
 

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Ok... all these posts are valid.

But, if you would really like to last longer, learn tantra.

I don't feel like getting into it right now, but put it this way... I have orgasms that last in the 10-15 min (masters will tell you their ORGASMS can last for HOURS)

If you would like to know more, dont hesitate to PM me.
 

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Some stuff I've found useful:

Deep breathing - stay calm. Concentrate on 'working down' the rising feelings of orgasm.

Close your eyes and think of something neutral for a while. Then when you're ready to bust, focus on what's going on again.

Change positions frequently and do other stuff instead of penetration.

Ultra thick condoms.

Delay spray (careful - dont' use too much).

PC muscle.

Best thing though is to just get the first time over with. Come during foreplay, do something else to her while you recover, and then second time around you'll last much longer because there's less pressure of seminal fluid building up.
 

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get drunk before....hahah j/k but hey it always does work....

durex makes a great product called maintain you just rub a little on and it numbs it just enoguh so u can still enjoy yourself but go that extra mile.... another product is mandelay all found in the condum section at your local drug store
 
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