AlexParadox
Don Juan
First off, I have not been on the site for a LONG time.
Sometimes i feel that it may be a bad thing as I sometimes catch myself doing some silly afc things here and there that I may have not done if i kept my mind in tune with semi regular reading of the djbible. Having built up a set of tools, skills, and deep rooted inner mentalities I have enabled myself in the last few years to mature myself as a person and as a dj. Its funny, i still remember when I first came on the site in grade 8 reading about the 'veterans' who laid it out simply : "all you need is confidence, nothing else matters". and the more I get experienced, the more i find its true. Anyway....
Girl approaches me at my work and gives me her number on a friday night, I call her up sunday and invite her out. We hit it off, we chat non stop and pour our souls into each other. Talking about passions, interests, future plans. I really did enjoy her personality, and felt a genuine attraction to her and we both really clicked. I invite her that night to come crash at my buddy's small get together at his place, so she phones up her mum gives her some bs story that she is staying at her girlfriends place blah blah blah.
We get to my friends place, a couple shots later we are making out. A couple minutes later we are downstairs foreplaying, fvcking, and having a ton of fun with each other. Next morning as we wake up we laugh at how successful our 'first date' was. I drive her home, kiss her before she leaves my car, and that ends our first encounter.
now i felt fvckin awsome, you know that feeling that your just on the ball and everything just worked out for ya. and it wasnt a 'too good to be true' feeling either. I felt like i played all my cards right, and I hit a home run on the first pitch.
So we text back and forth irregularly over the next few days (mon-thur), our last actual conversation entailed me saying we should hang out on the upcomming saturday she told me that she was going to some concert with a friend and we should hang out next week. I replied that i would be by her house and she should stop by as i will be at a house party in her neighboorhood, she didnt reply. that would be our last convo.
Friday i texted her something trivial like 'hey its been such a crazy week for me' (in referal to university). no reply
Saturday night i ended up not going out to that party, called her around 11. she didnt pick up.
Monday i give it one last chance, i fb messeged her along the lines of 'hey you went MIA on me over the last few days, come out with me on wednsday and we will have a 'normal' date haha.'
she for sure read my fb messege, i saw her online on fbchat like 12 hrs after i sent it.
fvck it, i said.
i deleted her out of my phone about an hour ago (tuesday).
but what went wrong?
She was deffinaty not your dumb sex crazed bimbo. a solid 8.5, she is going to school to be a children's book illustrater, loves video games, used to be into anime and all that japanese sh!t. Really awsome, a real girl with looks personality and self respect.
I have been running several scenarios through my head.
1. she got the impression that im too into the party scene (which im not really, just seemed that way with the amount of end of summer parties going on), got scared off that while shes at some concert im out hookin up with some new girl at this party in her neighboorhood.
2. she doesnt want to end up being used by me. she seems like the girl who hasnt ever experienced a guy like me who can fvck close her on the first date. probably scared for her own emotions for me.
3. sex was all she wanted out of me. a one night stand. shes the one who should be walking with a limp and holding a cane....
whats your opinions guys? I usually dont ever come for help on the boards as I have grown my own balls and just move on when sh!t happens but this is just another one of those situations that have me very perplexed. on one side i did everything you could possibly do right, on the other she vanished into thin air after
Sometimes i feel that it may be a bad thing as I sometimes catch myself doing some silly afc things here and there that I may have not done if i kept my mind in tune with semi regular reading of the djbible. Having built up a set of tools, skills, and deep rooted inner mentalities I have enabled myself in the last few years to mature myself as a person and as a dj. Its funny, i still remember when I first came on the site in grade 8 reading about the 'veterans' who laid it out simply : "all you need is confidence, nothing else matters". and the more I get experienced, the more i find its true. Anyway....
Girl approaches me at my work and gives me her number on a friday night, I call her up sunday and invite her out. We hit it off, we chat non stop and pour our souls into each other. Talking about passions, interests, future plans. I really did enjoy her personality, and felt a genuine attraction to her and we both really clicked. I invite her that night to come crash at my buddy's small get together at his place, so she phones up her mum gives her some bs story that she is staying at her girlfriends place blah blah blah.
We get to my friends place, a couple shots later we are making out. A couple minutes later we are downstairs foreplaying, fvcking, and having a ton of fun with each other. Next morning as we wake up we laugh at how successful our 'first date' was. I drive her home, kiss her before she leaves my car, and that ends our first encounter.
now i felt fvckin awsome, you know that feeling that your just on the ball and everything just worked out for ya. and it wasnt a 'too good to be true' feeling either. I felt like i played all my cards right, and I hit a home run on the first pitch.
So we text back and forth irregularly over the next few days (mon-thur), our last actual conversation entailed me saying we should hang out on the upcomming saturday she told me that she was going to some concert with a friend and we should hang out next week. I replied that i would be by her house and she should stop by as i will be at a house party in her neighboorhood, she didnt reply. that would be our last convo.
Friday i texted her something trivial like 'hey its been such a crazy week for me' (in referal to university). no reply
Saturday night i ended up not going out to that party, called her around 11. she didnt pick up.
Monday i give it one last chance, i fb messeged her along the lines of 'hey you went MIA on me over the last few days, come out with me on wednsday and we will have a 'normal' date haha.'
she for sure read my fb messege, i saw her online on fbchat like 12 hrs after i sent it.
fvck it, i said.
i deleted her out of my phone about an hour ago (tuesday).
but what went wrong?
She was deffinaty not your dumb sex crazed bimbo. a solid 8.5, she is going to school to be a children's book illustrater, loves video games, used to be into anime and all that japanese sh!t. Really awsome, a real girl with looks personality and self respect.
I have been running several scenarios through my head.
1. she got the impression that im too into the party scene (which im not really, just seemed that way with the amount of end of summer parties going on), got scared off that while shes at some concert im out hookin up with some new girl at this party in her neighboorhood.
2. she doesnt want to end up being used by me. she seems like the girl who hasnt ever experienced a guy like me who can fvck close her on the first date. probably scared for her own emotions for me.
3. sex was all she wanted out of me. a one night stand. shes the one who should be walking with a limp and holding a cane....
whats your opinions guys? I usually dont ever come for help on the boards as I have grown my own balls and just move on when sh!t happens but this is just another one of those situations that have me very perplexed. on one side i did everything you could possibly do right, on the other she vanished into thin air after