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So a girl I have been hanging out with got her car messed up the other night, almost 100% sure her husband did it because he is a crazy stalker and has raped her, shes 19, hes 40.

Anyways, she is trying to blame it on me so I have to now go talk to the Police and explain to them it's not me and what is going on, I am not sure if she is in on it and trying to just be a ***** or if her husband is scaring her into doing it, when I had a chance to talk to her before all this she seemed like a really nice person pretty chilly and kind hearted then all this. Today I saw her at work for about 30 mins before she went home and she did not seem happy at all, she even has a restraining order on her husband but still goes back to his house.

Im pretty sure I pissed her husband off quite a bit because I was trying to help her out of that situation and he reads all her txt msgs.

Just wondering if anyone has delt with this before, I have never had to talk to the cops about anything like this, have a perfect record since I started driving at 16 and 25 now. And he has stolen gun charges, demestic dispute charges ect.

I really just want to get out of the middle of this and leave it behind, no girl is really worth all this.
 

Interceptor

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Muppet, have you considered taking Self Defense courses?
Perhaps purchasing a pistol and a concealed weapons permit?
 

jophil28

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WTF are you thinking hanging out with a 19 year old MARRIED teenager with a loony husband?
You need to make better choices -
 

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:crackup:
Better listen to Big Poppa!:trouble:

Dude, he's right!
 

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jophil28 said:
WTF are you thinking hanging out with a 19 year old MARRIED teenager with a loony husband?
You need to make better choices -

Eh she wanted out, gave him the rings back, ran away on their 1 year to my place ect. But I guess he has quite a strong grip on her, and I have seen him, hes nothing special, nore do I think he would try anything to hurt me but who knows so many weird people out there.
 

Scought

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If you don't stop ALL communication with her--no one should EVER listen to ANYTHING you have to say..............
 

jophil28

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Simple solution to your dilemma. Cut all contact NOW before that psycho husband and his 19 year old psycho teen ho tie you, and your young life, up in a pretzel . There is a smorgasbord of women out there., Go get some without the baggage. Say NO to baggage.
I get baggage with the women I date at MY age. That is understandable, They have had 30 years to assemble an extensive trail of wreckage behind them .
Go sow some oats.

Do not play Save -a -Ho

It does not work for me, even at my age.
(BTW- how old are you ?)
 

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Crazy rapist husband, sure. Do you have any evidence apart from what she's said that she actually does have a restraining order?

Anyway, it's irrelevant because you need to flee.
 

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Go get a cape and a supersuit cause you're trying to be captain save a ho. If you call her, slap yourself silly cause it will be better in the long run for you.
 

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Wow. And I thought I had too much drama in my life at times.....
 

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Get Away From This Chick And Do It Now
After you cut all contact from her...
*Do not accept her calls
*Refuse her letters
*Block her e-mails
*Call the cops if she comes to your house
*Put a restraining order against her if needed

This is a "Law & Order" episode (ripped from the headlines) if I ever saw one. It starts with them finding the mangled body of Capt. Sav-A-Ho (played by YOU) and the story goes down hill from there.

This is a very dangerous situation and you need to be FAR away from it
 

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Aye I plan on getting as far away as I can, havent responded to any txt msgs in the past few days, talking to the cops today then hopefully things will be done soon.
 
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