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Front Factor

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The Front Factor
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Whereas clout is who you actually are (or what you have
accomplished), a front is what you portray yourself to be (or the
potential you hold). Front + Clout = Status in Society. A good front
is necessary to draw hoes out without any extra effort (i.e. sympin') on
your part. For the record, clout is much more important than a front,
because as the name implies, that's exactly what it is: a front. Every
front has a back, and that back is called clout. I will go more into
clout in the next article.
God has given each and everybody something that when used
correctly, will attract members of the opposite sex. Some peoples
'gifts' are more apparent than others, but everybody has something. For
women, God gave them the ultimate drawing card....'nana. Just imagine
if men were given 'nana and the women had our 'jimmy'. Things would be
a lot different. I wouldn't be writing this right now, because my life
would be easy. I would be getting chased down everyday, getting offers
to go to the movies, out to dinner, taken shopping, you know, all of
that good stuff.
Our cards aren't as blatantly apparent. If you are lucky, and
society considers you good looking, then your front is already halfway
established, whether you know it or not. Some of us have to dig and
search ourselves to find out what our 'card' is. For example, maybe
someone isn't good looking, but is smart as all hell (i.e. Bill Gates).
If you can turn those smarts into money, there's your front. Hoes jock
stability and what a man can offer more than looks anyway (as evidenced
by ugly famous people with bomb ass wives). The key is, that every man
has SOMETHING....nice physique, athletic ability, sense of humor, high
intellegence....SOMETHING. All you have to do is figure out what yours
is, then accentuate it to make it stand out. Better yet, do something
with it to make a lot of LOOT. LOOT attracts HOES. Here are some
examples:

Note: These are basic 'Front + Clout = Status in Society' equations.
Nothing hard.

Athletic ability in basketball + NBA contract ($$$) = NBA Player
High intelligence + P.H.D. in Medicine ($$$) = Doctor
Sense of humor + nationwide audience ($$$) = Comedian
Good acting ability + starring role in movie ($$$) = Actor
Good looking + contract with top modeling agency ($$$) = Supermodel

Of course, the higher your 'Status', the higher quality hoes will
approach you without provocation.

See the general pattern?

The bottom line here is: If you build it, they will come. Women
are naturally attracted to men who have something to show for
themselves. How many 'love-at-first-sight' stories have you heard where
the broad falls head over heels for a bum on the street? Not many.
It's always some 'dashing' dude who is loaded, or displays a whole lot
of potential. When a broad is all in your mouth, talking about how nice
you look and how funny you are, you best believe she has taken into
account certain criteria that implies that you are somebody of worth, or
have the potential to be. Sometimes this is a concious act, sometimes
it's not.
A common mistake a lot of men make is to go above and beyond the
call to get a woman (i.e sympin'). Calling her all the time, taking her
out, all that good stuff. Then she ends up ditching that dude for a
better prospect. If that dude would just realize for a minute that if
he spent all that money he had spent on her....on HIMSELF, eventually
someone would approach HIM.
As a guideline, remember: front attracts, clout keeps. In the
meantime, do what you can to better your appearance. Kinda flabby or
skinny? Get in the gym. Take your 'chase-a-hoe' money, get some
creatine, get your buff on, and let the hoes chase YOU for a change.
The amount of time it takes to build an effective front varies per
individual. Some dudes come with a ready-made front, where others have
to start from scratch. It all comes down to how bad you want it. Or,
how sick you are of running behind women. At any rate, take care of
yourself, and everything else will fall into place. The sooner you
start, the sooner you finish.
Front and clout vary on effectiveness depending on your
environment. For example, my '92 Honda Accord on 16" chromies is all
the rage in Tucson, AZ, but it ain't SQUAT here in Las Vegas, NV. I'll
get into environmental factors in another article.
In conclusion, as quiet as it's kept, we men have the same
capability as women to do things our way...if we are dealing with broads
who are jocking the CRAP out of us. The key is utilizing our redeming
trait(s) and to build a marketable front out of it.


Field Exercise #2: Take one weekends worth of 'treat-a-trick-good'
money, and get a new outfit or a watch that goes "gleam! gleam!". See
if you notice a difference. The nicer your gear is, the more confident
you will feel. The more confident you feel, the more confident you
look. The more confident you look, the more hoes will holla.


Read and learn boys.
 

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Are you a gardener? Just curious!
 

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I'm I the only one who doesn't understand a word of what this guy is saying?
 

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Originally posted by Mr. Silk:
The Front Factor
Sorry, could you repaept that?


I'm sure you have lots of advice to give us but I really can't understand all the new words you've invented.

Please keep posting but not in pimpenese.

Thanks
JW
 

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What are you all talking about. Silk's english is fine. Silk, thanks for the post. I liked it.
 

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Great minds think alike, Silk.

Check out my post "The Relationship Begins Before You Meet Her" in the DJ Bible.

It talks about some of the same concepts you mentioned.

Good post, player.
 

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"Read and learn boys."

you always post with a condesending attitude. Like your knowledge is a gift from god. Have you even looked at how much Material is on this site Man!!.

The material that you have presented is worthy, but if you even took one second to view what this entire site+forums has in content. You will see that your knowledge is not as godly as you believe.
 

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allow me to translate.

He's saying that there are 2 important things:

1) Style (front)
2) substance (clout)

Style is what you see, your first impression, how somethnig looks. I disagreee with him that substance is more important than style in attracting women though for 2 reasons.

A) Unless the chick likes your style (your appearance, your rap, sense of humor ect..) She isn't even going to let you in for an interview. There aer guys on this site who write from time to time saying things like 'Man, I'm fairly good looking, I have a great job and make 6 figures but I can't seem to get a girl to even look at me!' These guys get out-macked by 4th year college freshman with three roommates and a part time job pumping gas because the college guy is a player and knows how to make the most of what he has and wrap it up in an attractive package.

B) Style provokes more of an emotional eraction and women are emotional creatures. Logically, if they sat there and analysed it, the woman would have to take our frustrated professional guy making the 6 figs over the college guy. But that's not the level shes operating on. at least not when it comes to men. she likes the danger and excitement she feels from the guy with the prison tatoos and the leather jacket. she likes the fun of being with a guy in a frat who throws house parties 3 or 4 times a week.

I'm not saying you shouldn't have substance but guys... do yourself a favor and develop your style too. If you think that is a erally superficial ****ty bass-ackwards way to think, well sorry. I know it is. Its frustrating for me too but hey, if you want to play a game you have to play by the rules. the rules of the game are, no style (front) no ass (back!)
 

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*sighs*

For all of you people out there who are "urban illiterate"(c) , I'm going to define and try my best to explian the words in here that you obviously don't understand...

Front - What you portray yourself to be.

Portray...look it up in a dictionary

Clout - Who you are or what you've accomplished.

(to) Holla - To talk to.

Nana = pussie - the female sexual organ.

Jimmy - The male sexual organ

(to) Jock - To be very fond of a member of the opposite sex.

Loot - money, cash.

Bomb - extremely attractive

Dime, Dime piece - A female who scores a 10 on the classic 1-10 scale.

If you don't understand, it's only because you refuse to.

BTW Silk, nice post.

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Originally posted by Young Juan:
*sighs*

For all of you people out there who are "urban illiterate"(c) , I'm going to define and try my best to explian the words in here that you obviously don't understand...

Front - What you portray yourself to be.

Portray...look it up in a dictionary

Clout - Who you are or what you've accomplished.

(to) Holla - To talk to.

Nana = pussie - the female sexual organ.

Jimmy - The male sexual organ

(to) Jock - To be very fond of a member of the opposite sex.

Loot - money, cash.

Bomb - extremely attractive

Dime, Dime piece - A female who scores a 10 on the classic 1-10 scale.

If you don't understand, it's only because you refuse to.

BTW Silk, nice post.

I'm a 36 year old white woman in Vermont and understood his post.
(I'm down with ODB...yeah you know me...hehe) My wisecrack was in reference to the overusage of "Hoe" (isn't it supposed to be "Ho", by the way?). Since a hoe is a gardening tool...well, you get the idea.
 

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BigBill: he did not say that substance is more important than style to attract women.

He said: (quote):
"For the record, clout is much more important than a front, because as the name implies, that's exactly what it is: a front"

But later he added (quote):
"As a guideline, remember: front attracts, clout keeps."

Isn't that what you said?... style/front attracts... and substance keeps.

Anyway, it was a very good article with rich material, maybe written in a non traditional manner... I'm really looking forward to any new articles from Mr Silk. Thanks.


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If I had the letters h, r and t, I could add e and a and get a heart or add u and get hurt; but I'd rather add u and get hurt then having a heart without u!
 

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the kidd the poster other alais,has a site that i looked at when i first started looking for info on the net.they(the kidd and his mates) touch so very good points but i think we are far ahead.and getting better we also have much more info that they do.

he does not resist and the good points (what we see fit) shall be assimilated if he keeps posting.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire:
I'm a 36 year old white woman in Vermont and understood his post.
(I'm down with ODB...yeah you know me...hehe) My wisecrack was in reference to the overusage of "Hoe" (isn't it supposed to be "Ho", by the way?). Since a hoe is a gardening tool...well, you get the idea.

It's "Down with OPP" in that particular song.
ODB wants his money, and visits the Brooklin zoo. Geez, get it together.
 

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Originally posted by Sociopath31:
It's "Down with OPP" in that particular song.
ODB wants his money, and visits the Brooklin zoo. Geez, get it together.
I know, Socio...but Old Dirty B*stard just fit so much better...lol Ya know, I'm so old that any old dirty b*stard really likes me, so I'm "down" with them. It was supposed to be a joke and ya'll didn't get it.
 

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no beat it.

I said that style is WAY more important than clout because women get attracted emotionally to style and once that happens they are willing to overlook little clout issues like prison record, drug or alcohol abuse or even violence toward them or their kids.

I say develop substance for your own sake but for getting girls style is all you need IMO.
 

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Originally posted by BigBill:
no beat it.

I said that style is WAY more important than clout because women get attracted emotionally to style and once that happens they are willing to overlook little clout issues like prison record, drug or alcohol abuse or even violence toward them or their kids.

I say develop substance for your own sake but for getting girls style is all you need IMO.
Mostly, yeah, I'd go with this. If you have substance but no style, you can kiss your dating chances goodbye. Especially for the cold-call street and mall pickups.

Style will always get you the initial interest. Substance only matters if you want a quality keeper, and also because it helps make you more confident.

BillG may be the richest guy in the world, but how many women think he's Mr Sex Machine? Why? Because he has as much style as a rusty can of oil left on a shelf at a gas station in Montana that was last used in the fifties.

Compare that with the scabby looking no-hope guitarist you know. You know he has no talent and no prospects, but just getting up on stage gives him a load of style points with the chicks, because in their minds performing on stage = high status, and high status (or the illusion of high status) is what they go for.
 

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BigBill and Wildthang, you guys are right on. As a man of much clout and short on style, I can attest to this. How can you show a woman all the reasons why you're the shizznit when she doesn't want to talk to you.

'Zackly
 
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