when i was what 23 years old i was at the sarasota kay club in sarasota fl on a saturday night, at the tiki bar in the back by the marina and there was this milf ish older woman who sparked a convo with me and within 45 minutes i had my tongue down her throat. she was feeling all on me and my apartment was like what, 3 or 4zmiles away from there not far at all i was trying to get things going back to my place and she just refused to go. the next day she called me at least 5 times. she meets me there again, same deal. all over me, won't come back home with me. i'm like dude you hae done every thing expect let me insert my you know what insidfe you what gives. she was like " i dpon't want to cheat on my husband". i'm like what do you think this is.
Im' not the world's biggest expert on sleepingg with married women; generally i avoid them as i have other plates but someimes one will just throw themselves at me and i would keep them around for a second or two. what i have found with married women, that have decded to cross over to the dark side (cheating), is that.. what the normal man percieves as the cheating woman is not a very realistic view. (most) women, are usually in a nevere ending battle within themselves over what they want and how they are preceived / their "morals" so speak. what i am getting at is every thing else, she will set bounderies on what she will and will not allow her self to do. this woman, i guess she saw it as okay with herself as long as we didn't physically have sex. but kissing, holding hands, going out to eat with another man her opinoin was fine. lucky for me in that itutation id dint' see the point in keeping around a married woman i wasn't fvcking so i never called her again but still.\
funny enough that same place, sarasota kay club, i ended up fvcking the woman behind the counter who was also married. i was beyond plastered one night, i mean GONE and i knew there was no way in hell i was going to make it home, so i got a room there and she comes back to the tiki bar, she knocks back a few drinks, gets prtetty plastered herself, when i told her i was about to go to bed she wanted to walk me to my room to "make sure i got there already", follows me in and abpout 5 mintues later we are going at it. after we are done she gets dressed and goes home.
i see her a week later, i mean i'm not trying to marry her or anything but i mean we did have sex lol, you know tell a dude hi or something and she like, would not look me in the face. that's the "i only did it because i was drunk" married woman. Everytime she wants to cheat she will create an environment in where it was easy for her to "not know what she was doing" to justify her actions. not that mjuch different from the clubbing every Friday night married woman.
I had one married girl that would come over my house at the drop of a dime, we would have sex all night long and she would make the stupist execisxes to her husband to why she could not come home that even the most AFC guy would know something is up. but she would not uder any circumstances give me head. that pissed me off lol. she was even up for letting my 2 best friends go at her at the same time. no head. because "my mouth kisses my husband i can't do that" rotfl. this is the same womman who brought her kids to my house and let them play nba live while we had sex.
what does all of this mean to you?
samspade is dead on. use it as a pick me up to know that you are wanted by women, but honestly i wouldn't take it further than that. married omen are the biggest drama queens on the plane.t they HAVE to be. I mean, what kinda soulless woman just fvcks other men that aren't her husband without any remorse at ALL? that would take the nerves of a freaking assassin.
to me it's not Even about the husband (though that is a point), the job (though that's a bigger point) to me it's the drama. it's not worth it. the back and forth, the one day she wants to the next she doesn't, the everything that comes with fvcking a married woman, the sneaking around, all of it just is not worth it at all. whatsoever. just use it as a I know i still got it moment and leave it at that.
