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Don Juan
:nono: My good/best friend has been in a relationship for 6 years... 2 of which were in highschool and the other 4 for most all of his college career. He is in his 9th semester (super senior) at college. His gf goes to college in Florida and is 3 years younger than him, and he goes to a college in PA. Basically they may see each other for 20 days out of the whole year.
He has cheated on her once before, and when he told her, she confessed that she too has cheated on him. They apparently worked it out, its been 2 years since and now hes cheating on her again, this time not once but has been with this girl (WHO also has a bf!!?) for like a month (10 times havin sex maybe). He is also being affectionate with this other girl that is young and nieve who doesnt seem to give a **** he has a gf.
My past: I am in a relationship for about a year and half, I have kissed 2 other girls, regretibly. Have been offered to cheat a few times - denied them all.
Thing is I understand his need for affection, but it is almost pissing me off for the fact that he still is in a relationship. He cheats on her then talks to her on the phone like all is well. What the f*ck?? How does someone have no guilt, yet not have the balls to call off the relationship. He has to know that she is most likely cheating on him too .. right??
What the hell is up?? I feel bad about myself, because im almost jealous that I can't be guilt free and just have a girl for one night.
It's seriously keeping me up at night. I am his friend, I want to say something like I dissapprove what you are doing, but feel like I am breaking the guy code of being like "nice work man - gettin laid" deal. And you guys know what i mean.
I am confused about people in college in general. My girlfriend is so loyal, as am i (though I get tempted and tested much more than her).
Someone say something about what is wrong with people.
He has cheated on her once before, and when he told her, she confessed that she too has cheated on him. They apparently worked it out, its been 2 years since and now hes cheating on her again, this time not once but has been with this girl (WHO also has a bf!!?) for like a month (10 times havin sex maybe). He is also being affectionate with this other girl that is young and nieve who doesnt seem to give a **** he has a gf.
My past: I am in a relationship for about a year and half, I have kissed 2 other girls, regretibly. Have been offered to cheat a few times - denied them all.
Thing is I understand his need for affection, but it is almost pissing me off for the fact that he still is in a relationship. He cheats on her then talks to her on the phone like all is well. What the f*ck?? How does someone have no guilt, yet not have the balls to call off the relationship. He has to know that she is most likely cheating on him too .. right??
What the hell is up?? I feel bad about myself, because im almost jealous that I can't be guilt free and just have a girl for one night.
It's seriously keeping me up at night. I am his friend, I want to say something like I dissapprove what you are doing, but feel like I am breaking the guy code of being like "nice work man - gettin laid" deal. And you guys know what i mean.
I am confused about people in college in general. My girlfriend is so loyal, as am i (though I get tempted and tested much more than her).
Someone say something about what is wrong with people.
