Alright, 2 weeks back, I went home with this girl who is a friend of a friend (lets call him Derek). Firstly the girl in question is a complete slut. I'm 90% sure that she slept with a different guy at a party we were all at last Saturday night. I'd guess she has other guys in play atm. So certainly not a ltr girl but one that would be handy for hooking up with now and again.
So after hooking up with the girl 2 weeks ago, we texted a little bit back and forth for a week. I had hoped to meet her while out with the lads last weekend but went to a different party. So basically over the last week, I asked her out twice and she flaked on both. I take it as non interest and plan to not contact her again.
Cut to last Friday and she's out with the group of friends. Now Derek and another guy called Dave would be my closest friends in this group. I wasn't sure what the situation with the girl was (i.e. was she up for sex that night) We chatted away like friends for a while. Then though Dave started slagging us both regarding hooking up. This emboldened Derek who began making some really awkward comments (ye two should get a table and candles :box
I don't mind a bit of slagging but looking back at it, Dave was tooling me in front of the girl! Now Dave does alright with the ladies and had no particular interest in this girl. I should have told him to cut it out but foolishly tried to laugh it off. End result was the girl leaving early.
The following night, I just ended up ignoring her and afaik she ****ed the other guy. Now I'm not too upset about ****ing up with the girl, she was a right slapper after all. I am pissed though at my friend making the whole situation awkward and ruining any slim chance I had of nailing her again that night. Am I being too sensitive about it or is it out of order to slag someone about a girl in front of that girl?
So after hooking up with the girl 2 weeks ago, we texted a little bit back and forth for a week. I had hoped to meet her while out with the lads last weekend but went to a different party. So basically over the last week, I asked her out twice and she flaked on both. I take it as non interest and plan to not contact her again.
Cut to last Friday and she's out with the group of friends. Now Derek and another guy called Dave would be my closest friends in this group. I wasn't sure what the situation with the girl was (i.e. was she up for sex that night) We chatted away like friends for a while. Then though Dave started slagging us both regarding hooking up. This emboldened Derek who began making some really awkward comments (ye two should get a table and candles :box
I don't mind a bit of slagging but looking back at it, Dave was tooling me in front of the girl! Now Dave does alright with the ladies and had no particular interest in this girl. I should have told him to cut it out but foolishly tried to laugh it off. End result was the girl leaving early.
The following night, I just ended up ignoring her and afaik she ****ed the other guy. Now I'm not too upset about ****ing up with the girl, she was a right slapper after all. I am pissed though at my friend making the whole situation awkward and ruining any slim chance I had of nailing her again that night. Am I being too sensitive about it or is it out of order to slag someone about a girl in front of that girl?