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Banned
I'm pretty sure this girl has the highest interest in me out of every single girl I've ever met from cold approaching.
So, the last 2 or 3 weeks, I unfortunately let my life head into a bit of a slump. I got lazy, ordered too much pizza, watched too much Netflix, didn't go home, jerked off like 4 times a day. Since I live alone, on Friday I was feeling SO BAD that I knew my mind would descend into chaos if I didn't get me some social contact.
So Friday after class, I head out to meet some b1tches.
I'll skip over a LOT of fluff, good approaches, bad approaches, etc. The focus of this thread begins at the train station. I spot this brunette sitting by herself at a table. Approach her, vibe for a while, grab the number, bounce. All the good stuff.
She texts me a few minutes later:
3:34 Thanks for helping me pass the time
3:39 Oh of course I always do that for [inside joke]
She went to a concert that night. Next day, I send her a funny meme related to that concert.
Saturday 2/23
12:13 [meme]
3:12 Lol. That's hilarious! Where did you find that?
3:26 On facebook! That's not a picture of you now is it?
3:55 Lol nope. But Im pretty sure I saw that guy knocked out at the bar
5:30 Btw sorry for my late replies. I have been working all day.
5:46 Oh its cool I was doing stuff too. Where do you work again?
6:03 At [____________]
6:04 Oh that's not work tho that's familial slavery!
6:08 Lmao!! Too true! Although I have to say I do get paid.
6:08 Oh really? No money for me when I was 12
6:12 Yeah but you didn't have to pay for gas when you were 12
6:22 And I don't now! City life baby
6:24 You're lucky. Although I'm glad I don't have to drive around much. So you live in the city?
6:27 Yup in the [________] neighborhood. I visit my family in [________] like once a week tho
6:32 Thats nice of you. Do you like it in [my neighborhood]? I have been thinking about getting a place out there after I graduate this spring.
6:34 Yeah [neighborhood] is great. Cheap rent, [other details that I don't want to share with you guys lol]..[neighborhood] or Chicago in general?
6:45 [neighborhood]. I'm trying to get into [school]
6:56 Oh so you applied this cycle?
7:04 Nope. I apply this summer. I took my [admissions test] late. Which I'm happy because I get a gap year
7:07 I'm also doing a gap year! Gonna get some work done now I'll give you a call tomorrow so we can have a proper conversation
7:28 Sounds good.
Sunday 2/24
I originally intended to call her around noon, but I was busy with stuff. Didn't get a chance until literally 8:30pm. Call her, no answer, left her a quick voicemail w/an inside joke. She immediately texts me:
8:42pm I will call you back a little later. I have guests over.
8:43 Cool
10:12 Gonna turn my phone to silent now to focus on studying. We'll talk tomorrow
10:12 Sure. I should be free any time after 4pm
Today 2/25
7:12pm Phones dying call you when I get home in a few hours!
Call her when I get home around 9. We end up on the phone for 20 min. Connect very solidly, same career goals, and she's big into video games just like I am!!!!!!!! Early on she said I should come over to play with her sometime. I share some of my stranger, more obscure interests, and she's really intrigued. Anyway, more importantly, I've secured myself a date for Wednesday. She even asked me if she should dress up, lol. I told her no, nothing fancy just yet.
Gonna pick her up (she lives out in the suburbs, pretty close to my hometown, so I'm going to go back to my parents' house on Wed and go from there), action date...I'm thinking bowling or ice skating. Not a lot of possibility for escalation, unless I'm able to get inside her place (she lives w/her parents) afterward. I mean, sure, make out in the car is possible..but that's just meh. Anyway, should be a good "set up" date, I'll intrigue her enough so that she'll be willing to come out to Chicago to see me, where everything is in my favor and I can do whatever I want
ON TEXTING
I bet many of you are going to tell me to cool it on the texting. I will, I will, AFTER this date. The stuff I did above was necessary - why? This was a COLD approach. Our conversation was 10 minutes long MAX. It was in the city. She is a reserved, suburban girl who is not really used to meeting strangers. By interacting w/her day by day via phone and text, I was building myself up as a "legitimate" person in her mind. This comfort was MUCH more important for the purpose of securing a first date with this reserved, shy girl than the "value" and "non-neediness" I would project by going silent for 3 days, sending her only one text, etc. In fact, that kind of behavior would likely scare her off.
AFTER the first date though, the COMFORT and INVESTMENT will already be there -i will no longer be "some random guy" to her - so I WILL cool it off on the texting. I'll go silent on her for days and make myself busy and scarce.
So, the last 2 or 3 weeks, I unfortunately let my life head into a bit of a slump. I got lazy, ordered too much pizza, watched too much Netflix, didn't go home, jerked off like 4 times a day. Since I live alone, on Friday I was feeling SO BAD that I knew my mind would descend into chaos if I didn't get me some social contact.
So Friday after class, I head out to meet some b1tches.
I'll skip over a LOT of fluff, good approaches, bad approaches, etc. The focus of this thread begins at the train station. I spot this brunette sitting by herself at a table. Approach her, vibe for a while, grab the number, bounce. All the good stuff.
She texts me a few minutes later:
3:34 Thanks for helping me pass the time
3:39 Oh of course I always do that for [inside joke]
She went to a concert that night. Next day, I send her a funny meme related to that concert.
Saturday 2/23
12:13 [meme]
3:12 Lol. That's hilarious! Where did you find that?
3:26 On facebook! That's not a picture of you now is it?
3:55 Lol nope. But Im pretty sure I saw that guy knocked out at the bar
5:30 Btw sorry for my late replies. I have been working all day.
5:46 Oh its cool I was doing stuff too. Where do you work again?
6:03 At [____________]
6:04 Oh that's not work tho that's familial slavery!
6:08 Lmao!! Too true! Although I have to say I do get paid.
6:08 Oh really? No money for me when I was 12
6:12 Yeah but you didn't have to pay for gas when you were 12
6:22 And I don't now! City life baby
6:24 You're lucky. Although I'm glad I don't have to drive around much. So you live in the city?
6:27 Yup in the [________] neighborhood. I visit my family in [________] like once a week tho
6:32 Thats nice of you. Do you like it in [my neighborhood]? I have been thinking about getting a place out there after I graduate this spring.
6:34 Yeah [neighborhood] is great. Cheap rent, [other details that I don't want to share with you guys lol]..[neighborhood] or Chicago in general?
6:45 [neighborhood]. I'm trying to get into [school]
6:56 Oh so you applied this cycle?
7:04 Nope. I apply this summer. I took my [admissions test] late. Which I'm happy because I get a gap year
7:07 I'm also doing a gap year! Gonna get some work done now I'll give you a call tomorrow so we can have a proper conversation
7:28 Sounds good.
Sunday 2/24
I originally intended to call her around noon, but I was busy with stuff. Didn't get a chance until literally 8:30pm. Call her, no answer, left her a quick voicemail w/an inside joke. She immediately texts me:
8:42pm I will call you back a little later. I have guests over.
8:43 Cool
10:12 Gonna turn my phone to silent now to focus on studying. We'll talk tomorrow
10:12 Sure. I should be free any time after 4pm
Today 2/25
7:12pm Phones dying call you when I get home in a few hours!
Call her when I get home around 9. We end up on the phone for 20 min. Connect very solidly, same career goals, and she's big into video games just like I am!!!!!!!! Early on she said I should come over to play with her sometime. I share some of my stranger, more obscure interests, and she's really intrigued. Anyway, more importantly, I've secured myself a date for Wednesday. She even asked me if she should dress up, lol. I told her no, nothing fancy just yet.
Gonna pick her up (she lives out in the suburbs, pretty close to my hometown, so I'm going to go back to my parents' house on Wed and go from there), action date...I'm thinking bowling or ice skating. Not a lot of possibility for escalation, unless I'm able to get inside her place (she lives w/her parents) afterward. I mean, sure, make out in the car is possible..but that's just meh. Anyway, should be a good "set up" date, I'll intrigue her enough so that she'll be willing to come out to Chicago to see me, where everything is in my favor and I can do whatever I want
ON TEXTING
I bet many of you are going to tell me to cool it on the texting. I will, I will, AFTER this date. The stuff I did above was necessary - why? This was a COLD approach. Our conversation was 10 minutes long MAX. It was in the city. She is a reserved, suburban girl who is not really used to meeting strangers. By interacting w/her day by day via phone and text, I was building myself up as a "legitimate" person in her mind. This comfort was MUCH more important for the purpose of securing a first date with this reserved, shy girl than the "value" and "non-neediness" I would project by going silent for 3 days, sending her only one text, etc. In fact, that kind of behavior would likely scare her off.
AFTER the first date though, the COMFORT and INVESTMENT will already be there -i will no longer be "some random guy" to her - so I WILL cool it off on the texting. I'll go silent on her for days and make myself busy and scarce.
