This is nothing spectacular but it's the very first time I've approached a girl in public and conveyed my interest in her. I've noticed that there are beautiful women everywhere and from what I've heard it's easier to pick up women out of the club scene than in. Again, this is nothing spectacular but a milestone for me and just wanted to share. I know if I told my friends they'd think it's no big deal but I'd like to see them approach a girl in public.
Well I had a couple flights today and I was reading "Pook's: 15 Lessons" during my first flight and I printed that article out a while ago and one thing that stuck was "rejection is better than regret."
So anyway, on my second flight I was on the phone with a friend and there was this HB 9 sitting there talking to some guys and I knew I had to grab my balls and ask her if she was single. We were on a small regional jet and I had a seat to myself at the back and she sat close the back as well but not close enough to talk. The flight was fun and we hit some very bad turbulence. I love to fly but this turbulence actually scared the crap out of me but I was laughing afterwords. I got to thinking about how scared I felt during the turbulence and how scared I felt just thinking about my attempt to ask the girl out after the flight was over and I was laughing at how rediculous it was that the fear of approaching her was greater than the fear from the turbulence.
Anyway, I had my copy of "Pook's" 15 Lessons" and kept in mind the "rejection is better than regret." Long story short as we started to leave the plane I looked at her, smiled and said hi, and she let me go passed her down the aisle. I was like one seat in front of her and I stopped (yes, I was on the verge of chickening out) turned around and said "excuse me......I just had to ask....are you single?"
Since I'm in it for the learning experience, anything would have been a good answer but she gave a big smile, looked at me and said "sorry, but I'm engaged." I smiled back and said "that's cool, I just wanted to know....have a good day."
I ended up seeing her again in the terminal and wasn't sure what to say again but said "Good luck on your engagement and left the airport smiling."
So for you guys who have never approached a girl in public....it's one hurdle you need to get over. I'm no expert on approach, obvoiusly but this was an HB 9, brunette, gorgeous smile and she looked what I call "scary hot" but she didn't bite me head off, slap me, frown or yell at me for trying to be a player.
I guess another thing I'd like to see from this thread is, what was your first DJ approach and how did it go? I'd like to know.
Well I had a couple flights today and I was reading "Pook's: 15 Lessons" during my first flight and I printed that article out a while ago and one thing that stuck was "rejection is better than regret."
So anyway, on my second flight I was on the phone with a friend and there was this HB 9 sitting there talking to some guys and I knew I had to grab my balls and ask her if she was single. We were on a small regional jet and I had a seat to myself at the back and she sat close the back as well but not close enough to talk. The flight was fun and we hit some very bad turbulence. I love to fly but this turbulence actually scared the crap out of me but I was laughing afterwords. I got to thinking about how scared I felt during the turbulence and how scared I felt just thinking about my attempt to ask the girl out after the flight was over and I was laughing at how rediculous it was that the fear of approaching her was greater than the fear from the turbulence.
Anyway, I had my copy of "Pook's" 15 Lessons" and kept in mind the "rejection is better than regret." Long story short as we started to leave the plane I looked at her, smiled and said hi, and she let me go passed her down the aisle. I was like one seat in front of her and I stopped (yes, I was on the verge of chickening out) turned around and said "excuse me......I just had to ask....are you single?"
Since I'm in it for the learning experience, anything would have been a good answer but she gave a big smile, looked at me and said "sorry, but I'm engaged." I smiled back and said "that's cool, I just wanted to know....have a good day."
I ended up seeing her again in the terminal and wasn't sure what to say again but said "Good luck on your engagement and left the airport smiling."
So for you guys who have never approached a girl in public....it's one hurdle you need to get over. I'm no expert on approach, obvoiusly but this was an HB 9, brunette, gorgeous smile and she looked what I call "scary hot" but she didn't bite me head off, slap me, frown or yell at me for trying to be a player.
I guess another thing I'd like to see from this thread is, what was your first DJ approach and how did it go? I'd like to know.