Well Saturday night and I felt like going out. Normally I go with friends. But I wanted to concentrate on sarging and really learn. It has been a pretty long time that I went out alone, but it truly is the best way to focus on your game.
Anyway I went to the first bar. Immediately approach some old dude (no not to #close him) and ask if the seat next to him is taken. It wasn't and I had a great seat in a fvckin crowded bar. What I didn't realise is that on the other end of the bar a nice little suprise was waving at me.
It were a group of good friends of mine. I had mixed feelings. But the social capable guy that I am. I went over and had some drinks. First thing I noticed: Now I was talking to them instead of checking out the ladies and I was drinking too quick. They were going to another club and wanted me to come along. This however were not my plans. And I firmly stood my ground. While they couldn't grasp why in the world I wanted to be alone instead of in their company. I was mentally patting myself on the shoulder. Onward.
I was all alone, and happy. Only to find out their was no reason to stay in this bar. So I went to another one. It was freezing outside and I could still feel it, so I was thankfull the little encounter with my friends didn't make me drunk. In the other place I go straight for the bar. And order my drink. The beauty of standing at the bar is that girls order: alone. This means less c*ckblocks. And there she was....my first victim. I noticed she didn't call the barman over for her order, nor did she wave with money. So I casually opened with a tip on how to order. Yes, now I was ready for the real fun. (my first approach is only that, it's my mental starting engine)
Second girl came ordering her stuff. This place was packed full and the bar people were very busy. So this girl had to wait next to me for quite some time (I know she liked it, she was undressing me with her thoughts). I told her she should use her charme to get those guys to help her. She asked me to show how it's done. So I gave her a smile. She had two drinks and I asked her what it was. She told me, and asked if I wanted to taste. Shocked by her own suggestion quickly adding if I had a sickniss. Now I noticed:This girl gives strange men free drinks, but is carefull and easily persuaded. So I'm sippin her martini as her girlfriend joins us. Her name was the same as a well known dutch cereal meal (Brinta). Made fun off that. Got them laughing. Then I didn't initiate anything. Made them ask the questions. Worked very well. And as the people around me got loosened up, I became more and more relaxed. It was time to go for the grand tour and check out the rest of the bar.
While doing that I felt great and knew I was in the zone. When you're in the zone, as I like to call it, you can approach everything and everyone. While I was enjoying this suddenly some guy approaches me. Knowing my name and telling me we met at some party. Apparently I was fvckin drunk at that party, because I couldn't remember one bit of this guy (was a pretty weird situation). But his girlfriends, he introduced me too, were very interesting to say the least. I felt great and now knew 2 girls at the bar and 2 girls circling my new found friend. It was a jolly good time.
One tip:Never give your phone to girls. I did and told the two girls at the bar to put their number in their. They did, but one also called another girl (it was +-3 am, still waiting for the hatemail). I should have kicked her ass, but it was just to pretty, so I slapped it. Went to the other girls and asked for their number. But one of them asked me a real fvcked up question. She asked which one of them I was going to call first. I was somewhat alarmed. I answered that I only would answer that question if they show me some lesbian action. So they laugh and start grinding. Now my new friend and his buds were of the opinion to start c*ckblocking. But this had a good effect since I didn't answer the question and still got what I wanted. Think positive right.
It was almost 4 and the place was closing soon. I thought what the hell I'm going to try something I never did before. So I stood at a place were alot of people walk by and went for the first girl with hungry eyes. Grabbing her arm stopping her. All I say is I'm not doing that again, but atleast I tried.
Anyway I went to the first bar. Immediately approach some old dude (no not to #close him) and ask if the seat next to him is taken. It wasn't and I had a great seat in a fvckin crowded bar. What I didn't realise is that on the other end of the bar a nice little suprise was waving at me.
It were a group of good friends of mine. I had mixed feelings. But the social capable guy that I am. I went over and had some drinks. First thing I noticed: Now I was talking to them instead of checking out the ladies and I was drinking too quick. They were going to another club and wanted me to come along. This however were not my plans. And I firmly stood my ground. While they couldn't grasp why in the world I wanted to be alone instead of in their company. I was mentally patting myself on the shoulder. Onward.
I was all alone, and happy. Only to find out their was no reason to stay in this bar. So I went to another one. It was freezing outside and I could still feel it, so I was thankfull the little encounter with my friends didn't make me drunk. In the other place I go straight for the bar. And order my drink. The beauty of standing at the bar is that girls order: alone. This means less c*ckblocks. And there she was....my first victim. I noticed she didn't call the barman over for her order, nor did she wave with money. So I casually opened with a tip on how to order. Yes, now I was ready for the real fun. (my first approach is only that, it's my mental starting engine)
Second girl came ordering her stuff. This place was packed full and the bar people were very busy. So this girl had to wait next to me for quite some time (I know she liked it, she was undressing me with her thoughts). I told her she should use her charme to get those guys to help her. She asked me to show how it's done. So I gave her a smile. She had two drinks and I asked her what it was. She told me, and asked if I wanted to taste. Shocked by her own suggestion quickly adding if I had a sickniss. Now I noticed:This girl gives strange men free drinks, but is carefull and easily persuaded. So I'm sippin her martini as her girlfriend joins us. Her name was the same as a well known dutch cereal meal (Brinta). Made fun off that. Got them laughing. Then I didn't initiate anything. Made them ask the questions. Worked very well. And as the people around me got loosened up, I became more and more relaxed. It was time to go for the grand tour and check out the rest of the bar.
While doing that I felt great and knew I was in the zone. When you're in the zone, as I like to call it, you can approach everything and everyone. While I was enjoying this suddenly some guy approaches me. Knowing my name and telling me we met at some party. Apparently I was fvckin drunk at that party, because I couldn't remember one bit of this guy (was a pretty weird situation). But his girlfriends, he introduced me too, were very interesting to say the least. I felt great and now knew 2 girls at the bar and 2 girls circling my new found friend. It was a jolly good time.
One tip:Never give your phone to girls. I did and told the two girls at the bar to put their number in their. They did, but one also called another girl (it was +-3 am, still waiting for the hatemail). I should have kicked her ass, but it was just to pretty, so I slapped it. Went to the other girls and asked for their number. But one of them asked me a real fvcked up question. She asked which one of them I was going to call first. I was somewhat alarmed. I answered that I only would answer that question if they show me some lesbian action. So they laugh and start grinding. Now my new friend and his buds were of the opinion to start c*ckblocking. But this had a good effect since I didn't answer the question and still got what I wanted. Think positive right.
It was almost 4 and the place was closing soon. I thought what the hell I'm going to try something I never did before. So I stood at a place were alot of people walk by and went for the first girl with hungry eyes. Grabbing her arm stopping her. All I say is I'm not doing that again, but atleast I tried.
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