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When this is over it would be so awesome if you would state what you have learned so we can draw from it.
I really want to figure this girl out.
What is going on in her mind?
First off she is a great liar & manipulator...
Is this something she learned from her mother or father?
One thing I always try to do is get to know the parents.. Mainly through asking the girl about her family/history and the relationship her parents have. This can be accomplished easily... "So what do your parents do?"
The "I like you too much" thing... She's just digging deeper to keep your attention. Or.... going out on a limb to keep you on the chain... Once again a liar and manipulator!
Why won't she call much... I don't get it...? Everyone is right, if she really wanted to call you she would find a way! Just call to see if you are on the chain?
Figure this girl out bro! What's your opinioin?!
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I'm going to give my opinion based on my exsperiences ...
I was originally very happy for you after reading your first post!
The only thing that was weird was the girl kissing you! Either you are a pimp or she has problems...
It's not really human to just JUMP into things! I've only heard of a few people ****ing on the first date and accually staying together... And still their relationships were mainly based on sex...
Give her a challenge bro! Play hard to get! It isn't what she wants, but it's what she needs... You know you want one too! In the end you'd both be happy with each other and trusting of each other!
If you don't present her with a challenge then she won't be thinking about you the next day. You don't want to make the challenge seem to hard though. Also don't play too hard to get or do it for too long. I've usually found that after a month you can slowly give into her.
With that said...
The whole kiss thing... I've walked girls to their cars or doors... I've had girls give me the eye contact, the LOOK that just screams I wanna kiss. Or the moment of silence before she walked inside, the gingle of her keys... etc... Knowing that they wanted a kiss on the first/second date, I would just shoot them down with "Well gimme a hug!" it states that you don't want a kiss. You arn't showing too much interest! It builds that first kiss up. If you pull that **** on the 3rd date though, you'll lose her! I ened up not getting with either of them, simply because they were too easy!
I now show little interest/eye contact on the first date, but at the same time making her laugh and slightly drawing more attention to myself then to her. Not talking about my self and coming off ****y... Then 2 days later calling and 2 more days later calling and setting up the 2nd date.
2nd date - I'd show interest, and it'd usually go well. But every girl is differnt...
Hmmmm one quick note* About the not showing much interest on the first date - 1. Presents a challenge. 2. If you do make eye contact... they look away... but a week later on the 2nd date when you make eye contact they will not look away!
Please correctly me if I was wrong about anything!
I am here to learn and share!
Well I am going to make a new topic, it's why I'm here at the forum... Please go read/reply to - "7th date, but first time at my house!"
