for all you guys who are pathetic and can't get a date to save your life, READ THIS! im comparing you to athletes that have never played a sport before.
think of getting girls like developing a skill. for those of you who think you can read every article and the dj bible in one night and then get the girl of their dreams tomorrow is dreaming. (what athlete has learned a skill in one day? how much frustration did wayne gretzky have to go through to learn how to skate. when he was 4 yrs old and he fell on his @ss the first time, he didnt give up and say oh, only the big boys can be hockey players.
think of everything you do in life as investment towards improving your dj game and the opponent being chicks. EVERYTHING ADDS UP. the LITTLE things COUNT.
let's compare long term goals:
frustated dj: get laid
athlete: eg. make a prestigious team and win a certain event or get a high ranking.
now, the athlete will not say " pushups? how the hell is this gonna help me win the national championship. " they will think, pushups + shooting + sprints + eating right will all add up in the end to them being better. and the results will take care of themselves.
what does this mean for you pathetic dj's? don't look too far ahead. don't think about getting laid or getting a date because that is so far away from happening. you don't have the skills necessary to make it happen yet. blame the girls? no. blame yourself. you keep giving up when you make progress and trying to get girls when your skills just weren;t where they needed to be. but instead of getting mad at yourself and working even harder to improve those skills, YOU GIVE UP! so any progress that was made is lost, and you go back to square 1.
you frustrated dj's should think of that old man as a chance to practice your skills. the more you practice the better they will get. DO EVERYTHING YOU CAN TO INCREASE YOUR ODDS OF ATTRACTING A GIRL. just like an athlete does everything to increase their chance of winning.
be nice to your sister. if you are mean to your sister, you will be mean to girls. always aim to be your best. don't treat anyone less good just because they are not hot. this will take away from putting girls you like on a pedestal too. but most importantly your skills will develop.
say you see a fat ugly chick wearing some nasty clothes. so what. go up to her and say something nice and then walk away. so what you didnt get laid. but like i said, it adds up.
ask every girl that is alone what her name is and see what happens. you won't get laid. but it WILL increase your odds of getting laid in a year. this is a long term project.
an athlete might take 2 years to go from beginner to advanced level. same goes with dj skills.
you guys have to be willing to put the work in, meaning doing WHATEVER it takes, whether it be embarrassment, sweat and do it with a passion. and in the process, in the back of your head KNOW THAT THIS WILL GET YOU LAID. not now BUT you will be rewarded eventually.
tell yourself this. am i willing to make a fool of myself to get laid? who says I? I DO! just because you didnt get laid there doesnt mean you wont.
this doesnt apply to sex only, im talking #'s and dates too.
there is so much to gain and so little to lose IF you don't give up
think of getting girls like developing a skill. for those of you who think you can read every article and the dj bible in one night and then get the girl of their dreams tomorrow is dreaming. (what athlete has learned a skill in one day? how much frustration did wayne gretzky have to go through to learn how to skate. when he was 4 yrs old and he fell on his @ss the first time, he didnt give up and say oh, only the big boys can be hockey players.
think of everything you do in life as investment towards improving your dj game and the opponent being chicks. EVERYTHING ADDS UP. the LITTLE things COUNT.
let's compare long term goals:
frustated dj: get laid
athlete: eg. make a prestigious team and win a certain event or get a high ranking.
now, the athlete will not say " pushups? how the hell is this gonna help me win the national championship. " they will think, pushups + shooting + sprints + eating right will all add up in the end to them being better. and the results will take care of themselves.
what does this mean for you pathetic dj's? don't look too far ahead. don't think about getting laid or getting a date because that is so far away from happening. you don't have the skills necessary to make it happen yet. blame the girls? no. blame yourself. you keep giving up when you make progress and trying to get girls when your skills just weren;t where they needed to be. but instead of getting mad at yourself and working even harder to improve those skills, YOU GIVE UP! so any progress that was made is lost, and you go back to square 1.
you frustrated dj's should think of that old man as a chance to practice your skills. the more you practice the better they will get. DO EVERYTHING YOU CAN TO INCREASE YOUR ODDS OF ATTRACTING A GIRL. just like an athlete does everything to increase their chance of winning.
be nice to your sister. if you are mean to your sister, you will be mean to girls. always aim to be your best. don't treat anyone less good just because they are not hot. this will take away from putting girls you like on a pedestal too. but most importantly your skills will develop.
say you see a fat ugly chick wearing some nasty clothes. so what. go up to her and say something nice and then walk away. so what you didnt get laid. but like i said, it adds up.
ask every girl that is alone what her name is and see what happens. you won't get laid. but it WILL increase your odds of getting laid in a year. this is a long term project.
an athlete might take 2 years to go from beginner to advanced level. same goes with dj skills.
you guys have to be willing to put the work in, meaning doing WHATEVER it takes, whether it be embarrassment, sweat and do it with a passion. and in the process, in the back of your head KNOW THAT THIS WILL GET YOU LAID. not now BUT you will be rewarded eventually.
tell yourself this. am i willing to make a fool of myself to get laid? who says I? I DO! just because you didnt get laid there doesnt mean you wont.
this doesnt apply to sex only, im talking #'s and dates too.
there is so much to gain and so little to lose IF you don't give up
